2006-12-27 08:09:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Their are so many reasons why you should wait to have sex. Maybe not necessarily till marriage but at least until a mature age (Not in highschool!!!!!!!!!). I dont care what anyone says in highschool about sex, their very naive! Most guys try to make you feel bad if you dont have sex, but then later in life they make you feel bad for all the sex you have had in the past. Their also tons of STD's and you would be really suprised at how many people you probably know who have them. Worst thing of all, getting pregnant too early, no more freedom!!! Your life is about your child and thats it. Waiting, I think would be the best choice, like i said, at least until a mature age. When you can handle the consequences that come with the good feeling.
2006-12-27 08:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Milly 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
come on, lets be honest. I'm 19 and I have friends with 3 children already...so sex before marriage is obviously going on.
I made a pact back in grade 8...so I was 13-14 years old not to have sex until I was an adult (18) and in love...true love....not that "oh I love you because you're my boyfriend" kinda junk
I stayed a virgin until I was 1 month away from my 19th birthday, I'm still with my boyfriend and I don't regret it, though we were together a while before having sex...so I atleast didn't jump into it with him.
I think everyone has their own morals and whatever works for you, well do it.
I do not agree with teens having sex though, I think only adults should. 18 and older. Birth control should be used too, I don't think anyone should have an unwanted child....also if you don't want a child maybe don't have sex? I'm on the pill and I take it exactly as prescribed, so I'm atleast smart about it plus if I were to get pregnant my boyfriend and I can support it financially, emotionally, everything that is needs.
2006-12-27 09:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is usually better to make a commitment to marriage before having sex. I plan to keep my virginity till marriage but it is not easy with the pressures society gives. At my age it is not "cool" to be a virgin, infact people think there is something wrong with being a virgin. Having sex is a choice that affects us physically and emotionally and it should be taken seriously. If I do not remain a virgin until marriage that is my decision to make and I would not consider myself a " bad" person for it.
I do hope I will still be a virgin for the man of my dreams. It's not the end of the world if you are not a virgin on your wedding day, but I think it's something remarkable this day and age when people save sex for marriage.
2006-12-27 10:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by M N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fully believe in no sex before marriage. STD'S are rampant and some diseases you can get even while wearing a condom. Religious beliefs aside, having sex before you are married is just not a good idea. People are not willing to pay for the consequences of thier actions i.e. pregnancy. Hence the legalization of abortion, baby mama's on welfare and the fact that an std is now so prevalent that they came up with a vaccine for it.
2006-12-27 09:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kristen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's perfectly okay to have sex before marriage. Seriously, it's just a piece of paper. You can consider yourself "married" without actually making it legal. My boyfriend/fiancee and I have an eight month old son. We've known each other four years, and we'be been together 2 1/2 years. (We actually dated once before, broke up, and got back together a year later.) We plan on getting married SOMEDAY, but we are so not worried about it right now. (Also, we did not have sex until we moved out together, which was a couple of months before I graduated high school. And I was 18 at the time.)
I am simply going to teahc my children to wait until they are 18. After that I can only hope I have taught them well enough to be responsible.
2006-12-27 08:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Wiccan~Momma 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well i am 19. I believe that it would be the most romantic thing to share with my husband. Moreover, it makes me feel nice when i think that it would happen with a person yo whom i am not just a girl to pop her cherry, but somebody to really care of, to feel thrill for. The sad thing is that with time i understand that all guys need from girls is sex... But i still wanna try to wait
2006-12-27 08:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by JUSTGIRL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't think there's anything wrong with having sex before marriage...i just wish that kids these days were a little more informed and alot more responsible. there's no need for them to be totally clueless and go out and have sex, then come on here and ask us if they're pregnant.
2006-12-27 08:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by alfjr24 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally don't believe in waiting till marriage..I'm sorry but I would NOT want to be stuck with someone who does NOT satify me..Like the expression "You have to test drive it before you buy it"...But if someone can wait till marriage then more power to them.
2006-12-27 10:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♥AsH♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that you should wait until you are married to have sex. Just because your friends and family are having sex doesn't mean that you have to. Don't let anyone try and pressure you into doing something that you don't want to do.
2006-12-27 09:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by teddybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. I think everyone should have SOME experience with sex before you get married, especially with your fiance - and with other people as well. If it turns out you're not compatible after you're married, you're in for a disapointing marriage. There are plenty of ways to keep yourself save from disease and pregnancy, so there are few potential drawbacks if you're mature enough to handle it.
2006-12-27 08:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by eri 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋