Depends on what you mean by "have a little meat on their bones." If a woman is considered clinically overweight (or, God forbid, obese) most men aren't going to look twice. If by "a little meat on their bones" you mean "not skinny," then it's just fine.
If it comes down to a skinny chick and a fatty, most guys will go for the former. Exercising and proper diet isn't hard, and a chick who can't even take care of her own body can't possibly take care of a relationship. A healthy body weight is best.
2006-12-27 08:45:39
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answered by Steve 4
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From my experience it depends on the man...race and ethnic background play a big role too. We are culturalized in to what is acceptable or not. Other cultures women with "meat on their bones" is highly attractive, historically it meant that a woman was from a wealth family because they could afford rich foods. Socioeconomically now women who are in a lower income bracket tend to have more "meat on their bones" - processed foods, lack of time to exercise.
My experience: when I was ultra skinny (genetics) I had some guys who didn't want to date me...but I had curves and I was hit on by blacks, Japanese and Hispanic men. I was a dancer and model. I am now a woman with "meat on my bones" and I do not have trouble attracting men or women.
I think that it is shallow to judge a person by their cover so to speak but that is what we do. We make a quick assessment of a person the moment we meet them because it is more convenient than taking the time to get to know someones true self.
2006-12-27 15:05:22
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answered by gizmo357 3
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I am a 40 something woman with "a little meat on her bones" and dont have a bit of trouble attracting men. It is not all about the package but about the personality too!!
2006-12-27 15:59:23
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answered by Sandra B 1
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I think different men have different taste in women. For example:
I know guys that like thin women, also I know guys that prefer big thick women. It all depends on the eye of the beholder. All women in general are beautiful, there's only one thing, They have to have excellent hygiene, it doesn't matter how skinny, thick, big hip, big chested the girl is, if they don't have a good appearance, smell good
I don't think anybody would care. Personally, I love girls with a little meat in their bones, their just juicy and nice.
2006-12-27 09:34:59
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answered by hecc24 2
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I know I like a woman with a little meat on her bones.
2006-12-27 08:30:23
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answered by BluLizard 3
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Men prefer women who are less skinny. For example, Jenny McCarthy, who is now a famous actress/tv host, went to the Ford Modeling Agency and was told that, at 5'7" and 135 pounds, she was too fat. Then she went to Playboy Magazine and became playmate of the year.
But, you know what? There's a lid for every pot. Whatever you are, somewhere there is a man who likes that.
2006-12-27 08:14:20
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answered by Katherine W 7
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Men will always say they like alittle meat on the bones but one cute little skinny thing walk by and they almost piss their pants so seeing this reaction numerous times from men around me I will conclude that they really want the skinny one.
2006-12-27 09:21:20
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answered by Kitty 6
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The little meat and many meat should fall in the right place.
Arms , Legs , Neck litty litty Meat....
Chest, As.s Many Many Meat....
This should look nice....
Oh i forgot..... If looks cant make it.... The meat doesnt matter any more. So Dont blame it on the meat...
2006-12-27 20:29:11
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answered by novkhan 1
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when I met my bf i became fat...... way fat. I lost over 100lbs and now he's telling me to no longer lose to any extent further. He probobly basically likes a splash meat. it somewhat is own determination. intercourse with a skinny individual hurts; there are bones jabbing into you and such; so it may be that, he could locate curves attractive and he doesnt desire you to lose them.
2016-10-28 12:01:16
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answered by Anonymous
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As a male I can say I myself love women that take care of themselves. they can be big or skinny, busty or ultra petite. What they cant be if they want to attract me is "unoriginal, disgusting, gross, completely lethargic, dull, detatched, needy or desperate."
Women are most attractive when
You take care of yourself.
Mentally, emotionally, physically, hygenically or spiritualy.
~ You smell bad. we prolly wont want you.
~ You dont have original ideas or are dull or even cant respect our ideas the way we respect yours then we prolly wont want you.
~ You cant keep the emotions in check or leave your baggage at the door and choose to burden us with it we wont want you.
~ You choose to not take care of your style and wear clothing that isnt approprite for you IE ripped clothing, clothing way to big, clothing way to small, the ones that dont show of your sexiest features then we wont want you.
~ You choose to force feed yourself french fries all the time and never try to excersice at all then we prolly wont want you. (No offense but the woman that is super large and cant fit out the door is gross and I feel sorry for her honestly. No one said you have to be perfect average or even thin but there is a line)
Look men want the same thing in a partner as a woman does, and we normally dont care if she is big or small only that she takes care of herself. You women should want the same thing from us. You should want men that take care of themselves in all aspects.
People that love and respect themselves often and do love and respect others.
2006-12-27 08:19:01
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answered by Confusing Love 1
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