My whole life it has been like I have always been needed and never wanted. People only want me around when they have a problem to solve and then they don't have any need for me anymore and I'm tired of it. My life is worthless and meaningless.
2006-12-27 08:03:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Others have answered 'depression' and I agree. Seek help asap. I get what you are saying, and this is about self esteem. Sounds too like you could do with some new people in your life who value you, but first you need to value you. You are not worthless; each and everyone of us has a purpose. You know this time of year is particularly hard regardless of whether you believe in Christmas or not, many people feel as you do, but there is a way through. I believe that when we look outside ourselves and see what we can offer others we can shift our thinking. I know some kids who were feeling sorry for themselves because they were only getting one Christmas present this year. They were introduced to kids who really had nothing and they stepped back from their own needs and thought about how they could help. Refocusing does make a difference even if right now you may not be able to see it. It takes time to recover from depression, but the sooner you seek help the sooner you will feel better about you. You do want to live, you want to live a better life and good for you for speaking out on this site.
2006-12-27 08:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by bullied2much 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a people pleas-er to me and that is not a bad thing until you start pleasing other at the expense of yourself. You need someone to talk to, anyone, and if they don't get it, go tell someone else until you find someone that does, and I promise you, you will find someone. Don't be shamed of how your feeling right now, the fact that you have helped these people, even though there has been no returns, shows so much about who you are. That fact the people are coming to you means that they trust you, and your opinion. Maybe when you get over the feelings of worthlessness, you could study to become a councilor and get paid for this. Good Luck
2006-12-27 09:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go through the same thing. when i get stressed and fed up. i give up. and i dont think im suicidal but i feel tired and i feel like going into a deep sleep and not waking up. I think this way because i want just to let go of all of my problems for a little bit. I think there is a point where everybody gets like this. but there are ways to prevent. try to do something u like. that will get u out of that mood. if u like dancing and singing, then dance and sing. look for postitive things to do. like i listen to postive music.(kirk franklin:looking for u) which helps. i go to sleep and when i wake up i get up and organize my problems and decide what to do.For get about all those people u helped. This is UR TIME. do what YOU want to do.
Believe in yourself
Be brave...but it's ok to be afraid sometimes
Study hard
Give lots of kisses
Laugh often
Don't be overly concerned with your weight, it's just a number
Always try to see the glass half full
Meet new people, even if they look different to you
Remain calm, even when it seems hopeless
Take lots of naps..
Be weird whenever you have the chance
Love your friends, no matter who they are
Don't waste food
RELAX
Take an occasional risk
Try to have a little fun each day.
...it's important
Work together as a team
Share a joke with friends
Fall in love with someone..
...and say "I love you" often
Express yourself creatively
Be conscious of your appearance
Always be up for surprises
Love someone with all of your heart
Share with friends
Watch your step
It will get better
There is always someone who loves you more than you know
Exercise to keep fit
Live up to your name
Seize the Moment
Hold on to good friends; they are few and far between
Indulge in the things you truly love
Cherish every Sunday
At the end of the day... PRAY
....... and close your eyes
And smile at least once a day!
2006-12-27 08:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like depression. It might be something simple to fix, so you should go to a doctor first and get a physical. Then go to a counselor.
Your life has value, you just don't see it.
2006-12-27 08:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go see a therapist my friend, they will help!
2006-12-27 08:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by snocy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋