Ladies, why do you all keep lying to me and saying that you would never want your boyfriend or husband to be in charge and discipline you when you act up. It seems to me that it is only natural for women to want to be submissive in a relationship and for the man to be dominant because submissiveness is feminine and dominance is masculine. Why keep lying and pretending to be feminist? Please tell me the truth of what you REALLY think about this.
2006-12-27 07:58:27 · 25 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's not lying. Just because we know it's natural doesn't mean we like it!
2006-12-27 07:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Queen of Dumb Questions 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i am a submissive in the D/s lifestyle. i choose to submit to a Man in the relationship because it is natural for me. However professionaly i am the Director of two departments of my company, i am the mother of three girls, one grown, who are all strong willed and independant as i am. i CHOOSE to submit to His dominance because He has total respect for my ability to be a woman, mature and independant, yet i dont need to control Him. For some women this is not an option or anything enjoyable... for some women it is a nice option to the feminist thing that says we ALL have to be the exact same as men. Just because i submit does not make me weak or unequal, just a different side to a whole relationship.
2006-12-28 04:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking to argue, you picked a good subject. I think you are right about some things because most women, me anyway, do not like weak sensitive men.
If things go wrong no woman wants to go running to some submissive man for help. I want the strong man if he takes care of me, and I take care of him.
2006-12-27 08:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sue Chef 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We're not submissive.......Have you learned NOTHING from the last 50 years?!?!? Most women strive for EQUALITY in relationships. If my fiance ever "disciplined" me for something it would be over just as quickly as it ever started. I lay down for no one.
I don't consider myself to be a feminist, but I do believe in equality. I don't believe that women are superior to men and I don't believe that men are superior to women.
I would watch what you say if you're ever looking for a relationship with a respectable female because no one will date you with ridiculous comments like this.
2006-12-27 08:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
OMG! You have GOT TO BE KIDDING!!! 'Me man - you woman!" Me Tarzan, you Jane!"
Its the year 2006 - almost 2007 - get a grip honey! Most women are completely capable of being their own boss & running their own lives & we certainly do not need some macho sh-t head telling us what to do or disciplining us like they were our fathers!
Sounds like you need a dose of therapy!
2006-12-27 08:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by halloweenbride97 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen dude. Us women don't like to pushed around and it's not "natural" for men supposed be "dominant." Men just think that they need to be in charge because if they aren't, they're referred to as ******* I guess. In my opinion, I hate guys who like to be stronger than women because brains beats bronze, everybody knows that.
2006-12-27 08:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have no problem with men being the boss my husband is definetly the boss around our home. I have no problem with it and I couldn't imagine our relationship working if he wasn't.
2006-12-27 10:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Luv_My_Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only in the bedroom do I like that stuff, In our home we are equal and if he does not think so I put him in his place--Have you not heard the saying " If mama ain't happy no one is." Ask your mother these questions and then eat something she makes for you if you dare. Grow up and realize everyone is equal.
2006-12-27 08:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You want to know what I really think? I think your an @sshole.
A real man respects women and knows that women aren't their toys and that we can make our own decisions.
2006-12-27 08:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by Manx 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What I really think? That you have a hard time finding an intelligent, mature woman to be your girlfriend, because we would find it hard to be in your presence for more than ten minutes without slapping you.
2006-12-27 08:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by random6x7 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋