if this guy was hot
2006-12-27 07:58:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hot is worth it for me. So I have to say no.
2006-12-27 07:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am a guy so i wouldn't find a guy attractive enough to cheat :)
but I think that you are asking about lust...and if you follow your bliss, lust can be blissful...
but if you are thinking long term fulfillment and heart felt emotional satisfaction...finding someone that looks attractive may not be enough to make you actually put forth the effort to have an affair.
It is a matter of reward for effort.
Quickies are nice for men, because it is little effort for great reward.
'cheating' is usually great reward for little effort, with the added bonus of risk.
as a woman, the married man is probably more of a factor than if he's hot or not...if you throw yourself at him...and he is willing to risk his current relationship...that may say something about the value he places on you or relationships in general...are you willing to sell yourself at that price???
2006-12-27 08:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by therapy4love 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no.if the grass looks greener on the otherside water your own lawn,that is a statment my husband heard on the radio from a man who was married 50 yrs.i think this is a true statement.no matter how hot the guy was noway!my husbands best freind hit on me and he was very attractive 6ft 3 black hair and ice blue eyes but if someone is willing to think they can do that they do not respect you or their marriage so how could you ever trust them.i hope this helps.best wishes.
2006-12-27 08:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by jessiebella677 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. this could finally end up undesirable, nicely i think of anyhoo. stay faraway from the guy you sense is so fascinating and attractiveness why you sense this guy or woman is fascinating to you. actual popularity is one factor yet all of us be attentive to there is greater then looks to a courting. There would be something lacking on your courting so which you would be able to even evaluate questioning approximately cheeting....in spite of if this is over on your modern-day courting have the decency to enable your companion be attentive to it and then flow on.
2016-12-11 17:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Cheating is wrong in any situation. You would sleep with someone just because they are "hot". Go get some self respect for pete's sake.
2006-12-27 08:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I would not cheat. For the following reasons: I will only be in a relationship that I am happy with. And if I am happy then there is no need for me to cheat.
2006-12-27 08:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by xblackxtigerx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No -way ..... I think if you even have considered it your a cheater - Why be in a relationship with someone when you want to be with someone else - thats not right to the other person. How would you feel if it was the other way around? Who cares if he is good looking its not whats on the outside its whats on the inside that counts.
2006-12-27 08:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. When I married it was for better or for worse as long as we both shall live I love him and he loves me and I would be stupid to throw it all away over a hot guy.
2006-12-27 10:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Because that would be selfish, now wouldn't it? You're are obviously not thinking about how many lives you would affect in doing such a thing. Marriage is sacred and should be treated as such. Hopefully you have integrity and have already thought about that.
2006-12-27 08:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by southern belle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That means you really don't love your bf or husband. When two people are in love with one another, they wouldn't do that to each other.
Yes...there are a lot of attracted people out there. Would you f**k them just because of that?
That will make you a slut wouldn't it?
2006-12-27 09:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never cheat!!! I think cheating is disgusting.... I do not see how people can cheat.. Hot or not.... if you are with some one .. why do you need to go be with someone else????? If you are not happy with that person.... why stay with them... break up and go be with who ever else.... but if he is married.. that is crazy too....
But I would not cheat!!!!! that is just me... i am very happy with my boyfriend... and would never cheat on him....
2006-12-27 08:05:14 · answer #11 · answered by laceylu555 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋