I met a guy on the net who with time it became quite clear that he had narcissistic personality disorder, he would become very argumentative, and down right agressive if i did not agree with him that he was attractive....truth of the matter was he wasen't, and his ways made him even less attractive....it is almost like thees kinds of people build up a thick brick wall when you are not in agreement with them.......has anyone else met a narcissistic person?
2006-12-27 07:47:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You women I don't understand there are thousand's of genuine trusworthy loyal men around like me on there own and you end up with rubbish I think you need to choose more carfully in future
2006-12-27 07:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by rocky 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have worked with ppl that r narcissistic, easy work if u agree with everything they say. Obviously they cant see past the nose on their face, because its alllllllll about them. Not much u can do in these circumstances.. the ppl that i have dealt with also had other issues they were working on. The other issues we were able to help with, the narcissism was just too hard to handle. They left our facility feeling better, but they were still into themselves as they were when they arrived. Unfortunately my friend, not much u can do on that.. especially if they have lived that way for many years. Occasionally though, if u show them what they look like, sound like to someone looking in, it may be a "wake up call" but dont hold ur breath. I suggest take them for what they r, but dont let them run ur life and make u say things that u just dont feel r true. You r giving ur "power" away, and that just doesnt seem right. Set up ur boundaries and stick with them! Good Luck!!!!
2006-12-27 15:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by snowbunny67ss 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had been with one that had this too. Its frustrating and won't get better. He will ALWAYS need compliments from you and for you to ALWAYS agree with him on everything. If he is not attractive inside or out why stay with him? Why put yourself through the everday stress of it? Leaveand move on or demand he go get professional help.
2006-12-27 15:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.I have. If you don't agree with someone about something don't
be ashamed of it. Follow your heart. You deserve better and to be
happy.
2006-12-27 16:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't be bothered to look for them. Takes away too much of my mirror time.
2006-12-27 15:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes, they are everywhere. The hopelessly sarcastic ones are just as bad.
2006-12-27 15:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the guy cant help it hes probably got his reasons, but i guess hes not for you.
2006-12-27 15:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
. . . there's no thick brick wall between me and my mirror . . .
2006-12-27 18:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Astra 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just get away from him while you can .
2006-12-27 15:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋