Your a gay male and you like another gay male, how do you show them that you like them without being to fourthcoming or to fast :0)
2006-12-27 07:08:12 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Start saying hi to him first, then try to get into a conversation if you get the chance. If that's too difficult, try making friends with his friends. Find out if he's taken. After a few weeks of conversation, suggest you two go on a very casual date (if you invite him, be prepared to pay for everything. Casual does not mean dumpy. Don't call it a date, just suggest you "grab a bite" or "have lunch together." Think of a nice place, like Starbucks, where you can both hang out and talk.) See how interested he is, and then suggest you two hook up. It's important to seem laid back, and to let him talk.
2006-12-27 21:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in the eyes, people attracted to eachother tend to hold eye contact longer than normal, if the eye contact seems to be lasting longer than it would for just a friend come right out and say "I was wondering if you'd like to go out sometime."
2006-12-27 07:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by fl_lopez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to chat them up, honey. It is no different than with any type of relationship. If you don't initiate a conversation, he will never know whether you like him or not. If you do not initiate a conversation, he will never know you exist. You've got to put yourself out there and take a chance.
2006-12-27 07:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you might start a conversation with him, invite him out for a cup of coffee, or a drink somewhere. If you don't talk to him you will never know if you will like him or not. So just talk to him.
2006-12-27 10:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "Hey Bob wanna go get something to eat" or "Wanna go watch a movie". Start from there and build on it.
2006-12-27 08:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're functionally illiterate I certainly wouldn't send him a note.
2006-12-27 07:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get together as friends and if you feel he is coming on to you ( maybe you give a little hint to ) then tell him how you feel and i am sure he will see your point and he ws proberbly thinking the same thing
go for it
2006-12-27 07:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make alot of eye contact and touch his arm and hand when your talking to him. make sure he knows that your flirting with him. then after a lil while of flirting then ask him out to eat or to the movies or to comeover to your place or something
2006-12-27 07:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by Hail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know, you big dummy. Life is too short to let things past you by.
2006-12-27 07:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Trixie69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being forthcoming, thats how you get places.
2006-12-27 07:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by buldawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋