just answer generally, i know you cant do anything specific and its different with every guy...but can you name or say anything that might help guys fall in love with a girl sooner..?and do you think if a guy is with a girl for like a year and he loves her but is not in-love with her because he feels he has an ice-box right now, blocking his heart..do you think he'll ever love me after a year and he still not in-love with me..he says it has to do with my jealousy and also because his ex-girlfriend played him before...but come on im not like that...what you guys think?
2006-12-27 06:58:50 · 10 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A guy who says he loves you but isn't IN love with you is keeping you around for convenience. Honestly, if he were going to truly fall in love with you, he'd have done it by now. So what you have to ask yourself is how much more time you're going to waste on him before you go looking for a man who really will love you.
2006-12-27 07:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
♥ if u have 2 *make* someone fall in love with u, then they're really not worth it anyways. i don't think u can make someone fall in love with u. i just don't see it happening. falling in love is more than loving someone. people love their dogs, but they're not in love with them (at least i sure hope not). being *in* love with someone is different. the reason this guy won't date u is becuz he got cheated on by his gf, but if he went out with u, it'd take time to fall in love with u-- something u 2 haven't experienced with each other yet. & just becuz ur not "like that" doesn't mean that he's going 2 see u n/e differently. right now, he probably doesn't think much of girls at all. that's not ur fault & u have no control over it what-so-ever. what happened with him & his gf should be in the past. if he wasn't in love with her, then he should be well over the incident by now. i've never been in love, obviously cuz i'm only 11, but i can honestly say that if this guy didn't have feelings 4 this girl, he should be over her. & u asking if he'll love u after a year of the break-up, maybe. it depends, but again, u can't make someone fall in love with u. i hope everything works out. good luck. ♥
2006-12-27 12:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might have to do with his ex hurting him before. i don't think there's anything to make a guy fall in love with you and i don't think it's right to "make" a guy love you because then it's not true love, love happens on it's own, you can't rush it. it'll take him a while before he'll finally heal and you can help, by being there for him and showing him that you're not like his ex through your actions (not telling because actions are stronger than words and you don't want to annoy him by constantly reminding him that you're not like his ex) and that your feelings for him are true.
2006-12-27 07:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by ^-^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone fall in love with you.
If you have been with someone for a year and they are not in love with you, and if you need someone to love you in order to maintain a relationship, then you need to break up with this person.
Any excuse that this person is giving you should be a "hint" that they will probably never love you. It shouldn't take a year for someone to develop feelings for you. Either the feelings are there - or they aren't and never will be.
Break up with him and find someone else that will return your feelings.
2006-12-27 07:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by widevisiontechnologies.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spoil him!
No, really. Matters of the heart are unpredictable. You can choose to see where things go, or move on. You can't force him to love you, force him to forget, or force him to choose... he is as he is, and loves as he wants. I am dating a 23 year old who dated his ex for FOUR solid years... I will never know the truths of the story, but he is with me now, and that is all that matters.
2006-12-27 07:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be youeself ,no one like an act,let him do as he like if he messes you about dump him tell him you will love him but you mess me around you dont get a second chance if he loves you he will treat you right if not just move on,,,,,but you cant make a person love you that sort of thing has to grow
2006-12-27 07:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno...sounds pretty complicated.... but like just be urself you cant make someone love you but u can be you better than anyone else can. if he doesnt love you for being you then hes not worth it if it doesnt workout it wasnt ment to don't beat urself up about it
2006-12-27 07:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly have self assurance it or no longer women like me fall difficult to quicker and greater durable! i like my boyfriend lots that i cant be without him and we are the two in love and cant in simple terms leave like that.
2016-10-06 02:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by wheelwright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone love you
2006-12-27 07:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by traveller 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, communicate, and smile.
2006-12-27 07:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by old 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋