2006-12-27 06:48:45 · 38 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be very concerened. That is just trashy and I wouldn't want to be married to anyone invovled with this type of job.
2006-12-27 06:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jewells 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes! Yes! Yes! A woman should be very worried and concerned when her husband takes a job working at an adult entertainment business. Mostly men frequent those businesses to look and leer at the women who work there. Is the husband that desperate for a job? What about his morals and values? Do they match up with yours or not? This is not about trust. This is about temptation. Could he possibly have bisexual tendencies? Do you really want to find out that way. Put him to the test!
If he really loves you, he would find a different type of job in order to support you and the family.
2006-12-27 07:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by page.1825 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on what the business is. If he's aporn star, then it needs to stop. Having sex is the same with or without a camara. Otherise, if sex isn't involved . . .
Bottom line is you need to sit down and discuss it with him. Here's a guideline for a healthy confrontation.
1. Confirm the relationship - Let him know you love him and don't want anything to come between you.
2. Express your concern for the new job.
3. Ask him his thoughts about the job and find out his career objective regarding it.
4. Let him know ou will never be open to an open marriage and do not want him flirting.
5. Decide together what will happen regarding the job so there is no confusion.
6. Confirm the relationship.
2006-12-27 07:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man & the strength of your marriage.
Personally, I would not want my husband working in the adult entertaiment industry. I woudn't allow it. I know my husband and that would be way too much stimulation for him. I'm talking trouble with a capital "T". We have a great marriage but if he has T&A in his face all day every day it's just a matter of time before he reaches out and touches someone that isn't me. Men are visual. they can't help but love that stuff. That why the adult industry is so successful.
2006-12-27 06:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by genuine1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It completely depends on what the job is!! If he is a director, no. But if he is a participant in the film, then I would be. Even though they may be tested weekly, the partner may have had unprotected sex with another person the night before (which is not supposed to be allowed)...but what are they going to do, have each and every porn star followed around 24/7??
I would not allow my boyfriend to become a adult film star, and you should not allow your hubby. It is dangerous. Disease is a big thing in our country now, and most you don't even know if you have.
HPV (genital warts) is one of the most common ... 80% of sexually active people (who have had or who's partner has had more than one partner) have HPV. It is just skin to skin contact, not necessarily fluids!!! I contracted it, and well, every man I had been with I used a condom and they were all clean, well groomed.
ADULT FILM INDUSTRY IS A BAD IDEA IF YOU WANT YOUR MARRIAGE TO STAY HEALTHY
2006-12-27 06:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by I *Heart* Plato 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-12-27 11:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed to all beat hell. I dated and lived with a man for 5 years that was a limo driver. No thats not adult entertainment but......alot of his jobs were to drive women to stip clubs and he had to go in while they partied. He would come home with money shoved into his clothes or lipstick on shirts. So I know I would go nuts if I were you. I myself wouldn't accept it.
2006-12-27 06:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Usually only men frequent these types of business. Unless your husband has tendencies toward men, i wouldn't worry about it, but he could find a better job than this.
Being a garbage man would be better than working in this type of environment.
2006-12-27 06:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by ash84102 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not if you have a good relationship. Also, explore! YOU might be well suited for it too. I have friends of mine that he is the "actor" and she is the film photographer. I've actually been in one of his films (no, I'm not telling the name) and she was wonderful with the whole thing. Their relationship is solid and I felt very comfortable.
Opening the mind, opens a lot more than just the mind...
2006-12-27 06:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Terrigrrl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women should not be worried, besides, guys marry porn stars all the time. Whats the difference, unless its a brokeback entertainment. then she should be looking for a divorce atty.
2006-12-27 06:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋