I want her back.My ex said she just wants to be freinds, but y is she acting like this?advice please?
My ex said she just wants to be freinds, but y is she acting like this?advice please im in pain.. we r both 19
My ex said she just wants to be freinds, but y is she acting like this?advice please im in pain.. we r both 19
she said even though shes not with me, she still loves me. i dunno what to do im confused!!
i was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, she just needs time?
2006-12-27 06:41:14 · 23 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are both very very young. Don't worry about having to be in a serious relationship right now. She is toying with your heart and emotions because you let her and she knows she can. She has control of the situation. She has you on a leash. Go out and test the waters. Date other girls. Live it up and have fun while you can. Doesn't mean yall won't get back together but you both need to know for sure how you feel. But listen closely....If she is this controling and wishy washy now....is that a quality you want in a woman in your life forever?
2006-12-27 06:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your ex wants to play the field and still wants benefits with you, sometimes girls get needy and want to be held and kissed etc but not committed, that is a sign of immaturity on her part for keeping your feelings in limbo. You need to let her get mad.
There is an old saying Eye 4 an eye, tit 4 a tat, you give away your dog I'm giving away my cat... so what's good 4 the goose is good 4 the gander.
You do your thing and watch her reaction. We always want what we can't have. Don't give in to her she will want you more if you back off.
2006-12-27 06:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, Dump her now! You don't need that head screwing. There are so so so so so so many fish in the wide blue sea. Don't get hung up on this one person. It will be hard at first but you will see my friend that I am right. A confused girl is a dangerous thing for a male mind. Break it clean and go out and HAVE FUN. Meet other women. You will be glad you did. Have confidence in yourself and get out there you dog.
Happy New Year and good luck.
2006-12-27 06:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Buckey M 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She is really playing with your heart. She knows you are good so she says she wants to be friends so she can keep you around, and the reason she dont want u seeing anyone else, because if you fall for someone else than your going get over her. I'm not saying she don't love you, but has she been with other guys since you've broken up?
2006-12-27 06:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by MsTruthful 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well I hate to say this but she probably like's someone else who she might have liked for awhile but she wont want to tell you this because shes not certain about the way he feels. She might also be afraid to get to close to you. Usually girls can get afraid of comitment and stay close, but not too close. She might also just be confused about where she wants to go right now, most girls can get confused in a relationship and break away for no reason because they dont know what they want. Give her time to figure out what she wants, but stay close enough to make her comfortable. If she needs help, help her. It will show her who you really are and she may just chose you.
2006-12-27 06:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by chelsyrox1010 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is one confused girl. She may just need time, or she may be playing with your emotions - women like the power over men sometimes - just to see if they can make you dance. I would be very careful with this one, and give her some space to decide what she wants - she seems to not know from one day to the next.
2006-12-27 07:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She still likes u she just duzzent wanna get in a relationship right now so shes tryin 2 keep u available 4 when she is ready
2006-12-27 06:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
They say she is useing u but i don't think so sit down wid her and talk things out with her she says that she still loves u and it sounds to me u feel the same way so tell her that u need her to make her mind up cos it's just hurting u and hurt is the last thing that u need TALK TO HER
2006-12-27 06:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by spud 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2014-08-18 10:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants all the elements of a relationship with you except for the commitment part.
2006-12-27 06:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by doodlebug 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋