how can one meet over a hundred aperson a day and still feeling lonely?

Question

stay in touch with reality but inner

Answer 1

Easy. Because you aren't comfortable with yourself (or "in your own skin"). You need to learn to love yourself and be comfortable with yourself before you can be comfortable with anyone else.

Answer 2

Hi hartoport !!!

You can meet or be around millions of people and still feel lonely, because, "LONELINESS IS A STATE OF MIND" !!!

By saying that is state of mind, I mean that if you are not in touch and tune-up with yourself, you can't be in touch or tune-up with others; there for, having this feeling of emptyness, "INSIDE" of one. One is never alone, GOD is always with you!!!

A person that is going through this,(and we all go through this in our life time), needs to........

First; find the source of the reason why is feeling lonely.

Second; look for answres within themselves as to what is best for them

Third; find the time, and commit to make some changes
towards the better.

A lot of people are happy to be "alone" and they are "NOT" feeling lonely. As long as the person knows what they want, knows where they are going, and where they are coming from, that person "WILL NOT" feel lonely, because they actually in tune and in touch with themselves!!!

The advice that I would give for some one that is feeling lonely; is to take a walk, look at nature, trees, water, animals, the sky, feel the wind; think about themseves being part of that grandious creation.

That will let them know that "THEY ARE NOT ALONE".
Usually, one feels "lonely" when don't want to share certain things in life with others, for the simple though, that maybe they are the only ones going through it, they are ashamed and confused.

If this people start sharing bad and good experiences
they will soon find out that NO, they are NOT ALONE!!! And probably they could help some body that is actually feeeling the same way!!!

So go out there and share, good or bad. And just because a person is by themselves it doesn't mean that they are "ALONE"!
There are lot's of people feeling lonely, so your are not alone!!!
Get up go and meet them!!!

GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY NEW YEAR

ALLIV Z

Answer 3

Tell you what - this is my honest answer (if you don't like it - well, thats just too bad): Get a friend.

Or, get Two friends.

I had to move away from my friend, whom lives a couple states away now, but we still remain best of friends. Over 4 years or so now.

Occasionally I feel lonely without having friends up where i live now, but then i go and call my friend up, and - well, that lonely feeling dissapears.

Answer 4

If you don't make a connection with these people you will of course feel separated from them. Don't try to make friends with a buch of people, I know from experience that this is a mistake. Sit back and examine the people who surround you, you cannot make a connection with all of them maybe one or two. Once you make that connection exchange numbers and try to find out more about that person, tell them about yourself. Don't manopolize the conversation listen to the person when they speak don't just wait for your turn to speak but actually take in what they say so that you can respond accordingly. This is just my theory it's not necassarily truth, but it sounds kind of accurate doesn't it? I truly hope the best for you though.

Answer 5

It doesn't matter how many people you know or talk to each day. If you do not connect with anyone you feel lonely. Or perhaps you feel left out. (like if some friends had plans without you)
You need to develop close friendships or relationships within family to not feel lonely.

Answer 6

do these 100 people know you? Is there anything in your interactions that make it personal? If not...then there is no connection....

You sound like you're looking for something deeper. You might want to put work into meeting a few people and getting to know them interpersonally...

Seek elements that will distinguish the few rare unique relationships from the other 100+ you seem to have.

Answer 7

if these people are strangers and not those whom you can confide in, then you will be lonely even if you meet thousands of people a day....even if you know them but can't hold a meaningful conversation with them and be open with them you will be lonely until you forge some kind of relationship with at least one person whom you can tell everything to (if it is a spouse than only one though) but see a thousand people can not relieve yur loneliness but one person can
it depends on what type of a relatonship you hold with them

Answer 8

You are correct. "Feelings" are dependant upon yourself, not others.