my brother keeps on wearing his boxer shorts around the house, and sometimes you can like see everything, even though my mom says for him to be considerate of me! Do other girls have the same problem?
2006-12-27 06:38:12 · 19 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
OMG! my brother does that to, and its really gross! but he is one year younger then me to, so i pushed him in a closet and locked him in there. hehe
2006-12-27 07:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by H A N N A H(: 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if other girls have this problem, but it really doesn't matter, does it? YOU are having this problem.
Apparently, your brother's behavior is offensive to you.
You could talk to him and let him know that you're having a hard time with him doing that. Don't try to make him wrong about it, because he'll probably just get defensive then and maybe try to mock you by doing it some more.
Tell him that he is your role model for the kind of guys you want to date later on, and that you'd really like to have him to look up to.
Ask him if he would like to see you dating guys that treat you disrespectfully. Maybe he'll be a dork enough to say 'yes', but I don't think he'll really mean it.
If you can't get anywhere with him, tell your Mom the same thing. Ask HER if she would like you to date guys like that later on.
Hopefully, they will both wake up and take you more seriously.
If all else fails, just ignore your brother. Don't talk to him, don't answer any questions, don't look at him.
If he asks you why, you can tell him that this is the behavior he will get from you as long as he won't dress more respectfully in front of you.
2006-12-27 14:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by flywho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since i dont have a brother i cannot relate to that, but i do have a cousin and he too wears boxer shorts around the house like its a normal thing! i tell him to wear something over it but he says its more comfy like this, and he has holes in some of his boxers and trust me its not a pretty site. so next time u see ur brother tell him to put something else on and tell him u dont see me walking around in my underwear (if hes a perv he probbably wouldnt mind)
2006-12-27 14:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of my teenage daughter the problem with her brother... she started taking photos of him, getting all the particulars she could, then threatened to post them on her "My Space" account. She also started walking around in her sports bra and jogging shorts just to annoy him. She told him, "Brother, those boxers show off all your stuff, and it's not that impressive, keep it covered until it grows up." He wears sweats over his boxers now. Sigh... boys
2006-12-27 14:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by ihave5katz 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well see i had the same problem when i was younger and now me and my brother dont talk because i just dont want to look at him...i really hope everything works out good for you..just talk to him about it not your mom just sit down with your brother and tell him its bothering you and i hope you will find a way out of this. good luck!
2006-12-27 15:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom should be more firm about this and establish a Dress Code
for persons who live in her house. If your Father is not around, she is the only one who can do this.
If this is not done, he will cause embarrassment to you all when you have unexpected Visitors, like a Minister, Candidates for Election, Insurance Agents, door-to-door sales persons, Family and Friends.
2006-12-27 14:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Seeanna 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont have this problem. ur bro seems to be a perv talk to him in a firm voice and say that he's harassing you and a lot of people think he's a prev also talk to ur mom about ur house hold "dress code" hope it works out if it dos'nt just be a bully to him then he'll stop lol [ jk ]
2006-12-27 15:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been raised with 4 brothers and it is very hard to get them to pull their pants up or put pants on... They think they show their stuff off and it aint even cool.... Its your brother and i'm sure you dont want to see his body parts so tell him that you are his sister and you dont want to see his a** or his ****
2006-12-27 22:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by lilhoochgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an only child and the only male thing in my house is my mom's cat who is 13 years old
2006-12-27 15:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Gwenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother used to do that but I told my mom and she had a talk with him after that he actually stopped doing it.
2006-12-27 15:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by hopey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes your brother wants to get his freak on with you you should call the cops lol but i know a dude who does the same thing and he said he wants to bang his sister pour some grease between his legs or tell your mom he is sexual harassing you so he can get thrown out the house watch your brother he is nasty
2006-12-27 14:42:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋