2006-12-27 06:34:29 · 11 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes ... I was married. But I didn't love him anymore and I could'nt have cared less if he did find out. somebody would have had to sober him up to tell him,anyway.
I took my money and all the kids and left after he rolled the car.(drunk, naturally.) I told him I would be leaving as soon as he was able to go back to work. He didn't believe me so it was easy to leave.
I am in a good relationship now tho. I am happy.
2006-12-27 07:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've cheated & was never found out. I didn't feel guilty at first, but eventually I felt so very guilty. I realized that no matter what he did to me he didn't desrve me cheating on him. He was a jerk, no doubt, but he didn't cheat on me. And really, what comes of cheating? Nothing good. You're not really going to ride off into the sunset together. The other person is just using you for fun no matter what they say. There isn't a good ending to an affair. You always end up feeling like dirt one way or the other.
2006-12-27 06:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't cheat, but I will say if you do, you will probably have guilt for the rest of the time you are with that person.... don't do it... do your partner a favor and leave the relationship if you want to cheat. You obviously aren't happy.
2006-12-27 06:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by m930 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way it will have an effect on your relationship is if you let it....there will certainly be feelings of guilt when the deed is done but everyone deals with this guilt in different ways. Just put it in the closet with all of the other skeletons that are there.
Everyone has them.
2006-12-27 06:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by thatsmystory&imstickin2it 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
TSK TSK TSK!!! how dare you even THINK about cheating!!! Although you can cheat once, twice, and not be found out but that doesn't mean they'll never find out. and once they do most sane people will leave you and some other people might even try to get back at you so i suggest you to not cheat!!! o yea, i've nvr cheated and nvr will, it's just a terrible, terrible, terrible thing to do.
2006-12-27 07:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by ^-^ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
♥ i hate cheaters becuz i've never understood them. instead of going out there & cheating, they could just tell the person they're with that they don't think the relationship is going n/e where. lots of guys cheat cuz they're pigs (sometimes). they cheat becuz they see a "hot" girl & they say they just can't help themselves. that's a crock of bull. don't u think us girls get attracted 2 guys out there? we do & we're mature enough 2 not go out & cheat every 2 days. ♥
2006-12-27 12:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. It didn't have much of an effect on my relationship.I didn't feel guilty. I just lusted for the person, knew I wasn't going to spend my life with them, but didn't want to resist kissing them and having them passionately a couple of times. It was cool, but I stopped the brief affair.
2006-12-27 06:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by gawd0 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did it without getting busted!
I dont know if it had an effect or not, we're apart now, but not because of that (he still doesnt know) anyway he was a jackasz so i didnt feel bad about it at all.
2006-12-27 06:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope, but I did catch my bf cheating and he is no longer my bf....not a nice thing to do...
2006-12-27 06:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by Vanity 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but I'm sure that eventually the guilt will break you down.
2006-12-27 06:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by shoe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋