2006-12-27 06:29:48 · 50 answers · asked by oxygenforall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
♥ ♥ sometimes, depends on how they are close to their moms♥ ♥
2006-12-27 06:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends. It could really go either way. If the mother is shrew and views you as interloper trying to take her baby away. She'll make your life and marriage a living hell, and his ability to be good husband might be impaired by his loyalty to his mother . Or not. It depends on how strong the man is.
If his mother is sweet then chances are she's instilled some very good manners & compassion in him and being close to his mom he may understand women slightly more than the average man.
Really it's a crap shoot. You can't determine if a man will be a good husband soley based on the closeness between him and his mother. Other variables must enter into the equation.
2006-12-27 06:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by genuine1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If by "very close" you mean they show their mom lots of love and are always trying to look out for her and they have a good healthy relationship, the answer is yes. A man like this know how to interact with a woman and is sensitive to a woman's needs.
If by "very close" you mean, he always misses his mom and has to go to her for advice or comfort instead of you, the answer is no. That makes him a true mommas boy and you will always be compared to her. He prefers his mom over you and you will never be as good as mom at anything.
2006-12-27 06:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes! My son and I are very close. But, when a man marries, he is now #1 dedicated to his wife, and loves and takes care of his mom. Mine does. That is the way it should be. A relationship with a mom and wife are different. He can still be close to mom, and be a good husband and father as well. Don't fret.
2006-12-27 06:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nana 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
OMFG! lol sorry. Mamma's boys are the WORST. The mother makes it very hard for you to have a good life with your husband. She will always be poking her nose in your business. And when any kind of bad situation arises she will make you look like the bad one no matter what it is. Her son is gold in her eyes. I was married to one and dated 2 others mamma's boys. It was HELLISH.
2006-12-27 06:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a mama's boy and I think I'm a good husband. My wife says so too (on both counts). The reason this has worked out, I think, is that my wife and my mom get along. It's not that they like everything about one another (my wife disagrees with my mom very often), but it's never hurt their friendship.
2006-12-27 06:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My husband is very close to his mom which makes him more in tune to my needs. I do have to tell you that there are things that I have had to put a stop to and made a stand about. It is hard but nice too. My husband picks out the best gifts, listens to me and has wonderful taste in jewelery.
2006-12-27 06:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by sciontcgrl 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
maybe, maybe not. is a man who isn't close to their mom a good husband, maybe. what if when he was young, he never spent a lot of time with his mom because she was working thus he wasn't that close to her but that doesn't mean that he isn't a good person or will be a good husband. and what if a man is close to his mom, he can tell her anything but he's unreliable, he won't be a good husband but he's still close to his mom. so, i'd have to say, maybe, maybe not.
2006-12-27 06:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by ^-^ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure it depends on if there mom is nice or not. I dated a guy whose mom was rude and selfish and he was a total mamas boy so that relationship ended mostly because of his mother and how her personality rubbed off on him. But then I have also been dating guy who is a mamas boy as well and he is super sweet to me because his mom is great! Just find out if you like his mom and that should be able to give you the answer.
2006-12-27 06:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by play hard 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There's nothing wrong with a man being close to his mother, however, you are at risk for the mother getting too involved in her son's marital business. I have heard that a man that treats his mother well will treat his wife just as good. My husband and his mother are very close. I don't think he treats me quite as good as he does his mother, but that's another story. Anyway, as long as you keep your business your business and keep her out of it you will be fine.
2006-12-27 06:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How close a person is to a parent is a good indicator of the level of "love" and intimacy in that household but it is not the only indicator. Before you marry a person, watch how she/he treats his/her parents and/or siblings. There are many factors that would indicate how good (or bad) of a spouse a person would make, not just how close they are to mommy.
Advise: How a person treats his/her parents will be the SAME way you will be treated!!!
2006-12-27 06:41:21 · answer #11 · answered by nowhere 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋