2006-12-27 06:10:28 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't want to go, you need to be honest with him about it.
2006-12-27 06:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to move then you have to tell him. If he doesn't care about what you think in this matter and he still wants to move then your marriage might be over. It's really hard to compromise when something like moving to another city or state let alone another country. You ethier go or stay and if he goes then you can't stop him.
2006-12-27 06:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is the move forever? is there plans to come back? maybe talking about when you will be coming back might help. personally....if my husband and i were to move to another country i wouldn't have a problem picking up and leaving. but then i don't have any family here so it wouldn't change anything. if my husband and my kids are with me.....i'd go anywhere with him.
what is it that you are leaving behind that you cannot live without?
2006-12-27 06:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats the reason for the move? In my opinion, your husband and wife, you should have dicussed it and listened openly to each other. Whats your reason for not wanting to go? You should want to be together no matter what because thats what husbands and wives do!! Come on honey, dont be another statistic, try and make it work!!
2006-12-27 06:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are his wife, you need to submit to him, and give him honour and respect and give him the trust that he deserved, and be happy to do this, and not to nag about it.
When you marry him, you chose his life sytle, and you must choose him, or be without him.
Don't let this be a battle between the two of you to split your marrage apart.
Your marriage should be the number one thing in your life, and even if you don't like it, this is one way to show him your submission to him, love and honour and respect and that you trust him.
Hang in there, you will make do and make your home any where in the world because you love him.
2006-12-27 06:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let him take you to another country where women are considered second class citizens. He will be able to beat you and fool around on you. And he will be to take your kids from you. Do not do this.
2006-12-27 07:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only compromise is him going and you staying.
2006-12-27 06:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by motorcitysmadman2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess you have to really decide what is best for the both of you.....if you really love him then you would go to the ends of the earth for him, however if he really loved you....he wouldn't ask you to move!!! good luck in your choice, however you must really talk to your husband about this.....
2006-12-27 06:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by jesse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you move in the middle of where you are now and where ever he wants to go...
2006-12-27 06:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by lil_tappe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go....
2006-12-27 06:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋