I'm a young, single mom with no support network. I've lived in Chicago all of my life but I don't know that many pple and I'm definitely not close to them. I know I'm disliked by many. I have low self esteem because of this and the mistakes I made in the past. I really think I'll be happy if I move somewhere else and start over.
Well, I was recently accepted into a journalism program in California. I really want to go b/c I want to be a journalist. I'm also sick of the bitter cold weather where I live. I'm so unhappy about my situation and doing a job I don't enjoy.
The program starts in 3 months. Unfortunately, I don't have any money & I still haven't found an affordable place to live. I can't even get pple to buy my things. I would have to go with my child b/c my mother (my only family besides my dad) and I aren't on speaking terms.
Is it true that even if I move out of state and never see the people I know ever again, I'll still have the same problems/experiences?
2006-12-27 06:10:08 · 7 answers · asked by eoguhfao 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only if you choose to. You are the one that chooses the course of your life. Like it or not. If you want to be happy, act happy - until you one day look in the mirror and realize that you are. I read a quote a long time ago that said, "force yourself to smile until 10 a.m. and the rest of the day will take care of it's self." Strange as it seems I tried it, and found that in general, it worked. The most important thing I learned though was that it was entirely my choice.
I hope you get the opportunity to start over, you may find it easier in a new setting. Just remember that the "you, inside you" has to change and start over, also. Otherwise, you will just find that you are back to the same life and living conditions you find yourself in now. Good luck.
2006-12-27 06:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough o ne... their are those who believe you can't run from your problems... yet a fresh start could be just what you need.. s ometimes... when you get away from what makes you unhappy you can become a better person.... you might even change the things about yourself you might not like so others will find you more attractive... I really don't know you.. so in no way would I ever judge you..... sometimes though the people around us can make or break us.. its not so in only careers but as in personal lives as well.... I would love the opportunity like you to able to move afar and start anew....
2006-12-27 14:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your options are limited because you have a child and no money.be aware of scams by such programs as that.you could take an online class for jounalism or try to get a job at your local newspaper doing anything,just to get in the door.
geographical cures never work because when you get to california you will already be there.you cannot run from yourself.get counseling and work on your self esteem.i hope one day you can get out of chicago.remember california is a very expensive place to live.
good luck to you.it's good to have goals and hope for a better future just think it thru very carefully.
2006-12-27 14:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by freebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start Looking for a job at your new location or ask for a loan to get some money to help.
2006-12-27 14:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Me ★ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for someone offering a roomate or something way cheaper go to ca
you will always have problems but dont let it get to you
resolve the problem with your mom if you dont have anybody else
2006-12-27 14:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by carriebradshaw11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for a roomate
2006-12-27 14:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya never know until ya go
2006-12-27 14:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋