2006-12-27 06:09:44 · 36 answers · asked by schneb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't listen to people who make distinctions based on gender. that is retarded. not all men are insensitive, football watching pricks-and those that are not are not gay either. I'm straight, hate watching sports (rather play) like music, and art, culture and am sensitive. my gf is actually the insensitive one. so my situation is proof that the tables can be turned. it all depends on the individual. i doubt he is truly insensitive but rather restrains sensitivity from public display because of some other problem he has mentally. my gf is like this. she thinks sarcasm and apathy makes her cool for some reason where i believe the opposite. communication is key. if he refuses to acknowledge your unhappiness about this it is not because of his insensitivity but rather his inability to either a) understand that it truly bothers you or b) understands, but doesn't care. either way this begs the question as to why you married him, but next to that, or more presently, what to do now. either he gets with the program (which you are the program and him being your husband means that that program is the most important one for him to get with) or check out. life is too short to live unhappily. good luck
2006-12-27 06:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are apparently married to someone who is not very old either physically or at minimum mentally. That childish high school behavior usually wears off a bit as men age. And to some of the men bashers out there, we are not all the same, we wernt all born pricks, some of us have been considerate from the get go. Many of my good friends are insensitive pricks and I hate it because many of their wives are such nice girls. What do you do. Well fact is for some reason many girls choose an insensitive prick over a caring and considerate man. Also I doubt this is news to you, I doubt he turned straight to prick as soon as you got married so that being said, this was an arrangement you agreed to. That being said you cant blame your husband... Doesnt mean you need to subject yourself to it, but you cant blame him if for instance your marriage fails based on him being an insensitive prick because you knew that going into it.
2006-12-27 06:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by leseulun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once married to an insensitive prick. He was a jerk and we are now divorced. He treated me good until we were married and started to live together. I could barely stand him.His problem was that he had a drinking problem.He stopped drinking and things only got worse.We got divorced because I just couldn't stand the man anymore.I stopped loving him after all the arguing that we did almost everyday.I really hope that your husband isn't a prick like mine was.Alot of men are insensitive about alot of things.
2006-12-27 06:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL the classic love / hate ingredient he has your quantity for this reason why you sense the way you do while will you already know which you have low self-well worth and on the 1st sign of disrepect ( it grew to become into there you basically skipped over it ) you go away as quickly as you meet an more advantageous extra mature women persons you will see what i'm talking approximately as is your friends are probaly youthful green females and are actual harm and are naive and unrealistic while it includes relationships
2016-11-23 19:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by heuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We teach people how to treat us.. Somewhere along the line with you he got the idea that it's ok to do that to you. Maybe he's that way with everyone.
You have to try to get him to understand that you are a gentle person and that you want to be treated more kindly. This may take a long time, but if you are persistant and calm about it, maybe he can see the way it makes you feel. He may be trying to get a reaction out of you but if you do that, stop. Don't react other than to walk away. He shoud eventually get the point. If he cares about you, he should slowly start making changes for the better..
2006-12-27 06:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sensing that you probably have a deep-seeded and misplaced mistrust in ALL men which leads to your feelings about your husband. More than likely YOU did something to generate a certain reaction out of him, which you didn't approve of, and now the situation is escalating. I'd say, just analyze the set of circumstances that led to where you are now, see if there is anything that you need to fix/apologize for yourself, and take it from there. He can't be that bad of a guy, you'll work it out!!!
2006-12-27 06:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by bigbenuwrf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could also be a reaction to your faults as a wife and not just because he is a man. But in the end end it seems men are pricks and women are bitches. Age old old war of the sexs' if you ask me.
2006-12-27 06:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Carp 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Disgruntled much? That's a question that can only be answered by you since you gave no details at all. Obviously the two or you communicate like two bricks. Get into marriage counseling and stop smacking him behind his back on message boards. It's petty.
2006-12-27 06:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by Evolving 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was that your husband, the guy who asked,
Why is my wife such an insufferable biitch?
2006-12-27 06:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some men are built that way.they really do think differently than women are in some cases re4ally clueless to things we pick up on.My guy is a jerk but I just have to take the bad with the good-alot of the jerkiness come from some traits I do like about him
2006-12-27 06:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋