2006-12-27 05:41:26 · 8 answers · asked by bluemist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are fine with not receiving a lot of attention from your absent spouse, then you will be ok. Some people don't mind not having someone there with them all the time, while others need constant attention. Your marriage will work if you both remember to take some time out of each day to communicate with each other and update the other on what's going on. However, I wouldn't recommend this if you have kids, because children need the idea of a father figure in their lives.
2006-12-27 05:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by MegW12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible if both of you are committed to the relationship. Did he have this job when you married him or did he take the job after you got married? Does he plan to work this job permanently or is this a "temporary" gig? Is the marriage surviving now or do you feel like it's in trouble? The two of you have to sit down together and discuss the pros and cons of the situation. Communication, honesty, and trust are the key elements that will keep your marriage alive even if he is away from home for long periods of time. The two of you need to talk and determine what is best for both of you. If the current situation is best because of the financial benefits, then make it work. Those 3 days that he's home should be the best 3 days of the month for him and you . . . the other 27 days should be full of anticipation looking forward to the next 3 days together. While it's not the ideal set of circumstances, it's workable.
2006-12-27 05:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by justonefaith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That's to much time apart.When 2 people get married they need time together. To grow and learn each others ways and sleep together and raise the children together, not apart. A marriage like that is crazy. I could never only see my husband 3 times a month. I know the money must be good, but is that wroth your marriage. I can understand if your husband was doing that for a reason, like by a house or pay off the cars. Then when that was done. My husband would have to drive local or be gone for 1 week in be home for 1 week something like that. But only for 3days a month no that's not going to work to well in a marriage.
2006-12-27 05:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I'd be able to put up with that. Is he making amazing money that he simply can't find a job doing day trips? It's all about how YOU feel though. Are YOU doing ok? You'll have to both sit down and talk about it.
2006-12-27 05:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by James Dean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you beneficial this is surely his "sister", and not yet another spouse? She ought to be sure a criminal professional, he can post it in the paper, and if the husband would not respond, a decide will finalize it in his absence.
2016-10-28 11:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure can, it just depends on how much self control there is between the two.
2006-12-27 05:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by NottMee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it won't last. are you sure he doesn't have another house hole in another state ? find you a play mate but keep it real.
2006-12-27 05:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by DASH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love each other very much. for me it would be hard.
2006-12-27 05:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋