i need to know cause im ready but i cant tell if he is. he says he is but he sounds kinda unsure when he tells me. is there even a way u can tell?
2006-12-27 05:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well when u ask him he may just be shy about talkin about sex. he could be nervous. it sounds like u r kinda ready but u should give it some time cause one day when hes at ur house if hes ready he will start kissin u and it will happen. thats how u know if hes ready but make sure ur parents arent home when he comes over cause when u get caught it aint pretty. i got caught before and i got my butt beat.
2006-12-27 06:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Maddie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's not jumping on your bones, he's not ready. And you're not ready either. Having sex means you are gonna be responsible for using a condom, being ready to get pregnant - cause really that's the whole purpose, right, ready for having vaginal examinations if you come up with an infection or STD, ready to know what the discharges are coming out of you and ready to tell your parents you're pregnant, or tell his parents your bf's gonna be a daddy.
Have fun!
2006-12-27 05:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by nochickenhead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is ask him and judge from that. It should be pretty easy really. Most guys want to have sex at the drop of a hat, lol. So if he wavers at the idea, then he's not ready. Maybe he wants to save himself for marriage, have you asked?
2006-12-27 05:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can tell, but have a serious conversation with him. Ask him if he is really ready to have sex. Tell him that's it's okay to not be ready.
2006-12-27 07:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably plenty ready, just really nervous. You guys sound kinda young...so be patient.
2006-12-27 05:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you still refer to sex as a bad word, you're not ready.
2006-12-27 05:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by MegW12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
attempt this, "i'm no longer waiting to have intercourse with you." that's something you could be quite direct and to the factor with. If he retains crossing the line, you may get faraway from him.
2016-10-19 01:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably just nervous about the idea of having sex most likely he is ready maybe he's just nervous
2006-12-27 05:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by valley1800 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
agree with answer 1... haha
2006-12-27 05:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you stop holding his hand and let him ask questions.
2006-12-27 05:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by iron chef bryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋