He uses one to get off by putting it up his hole while jerking off or while I perform oral sex on him. Does this turn any other guys on? I mean should I be worried that he likes this? Im not worried that he has gay tendences just worried that this is abnormal..
2006-12-27 05:33:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not male however I can answer yor question. It is very normal there is a gland in that area that is very sensitive to touch. I have heard of many men that enjoy that . You are right that does not make him gay to me it makes him in tune with his own body and enjoying what he can. I say go ahead and play!
2006-12-27 05:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
nope not abnormal . very normal the prostate gland is in there and pressing on that adds to the plesure. the other thing if you have had it in the backside and like it as do lots of women then why wont a guy it is after all the same hole.
go for it have fun do it too him sometimes even get a double headed one and you can both be having some at the same time. tons of fun there
2006-12-30 11:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things vary differently with each person I have know other men that enjoy that. I think there is some sort of gland or spot in relation to the g-spot that men have not sure although. Also if your taking care him will also letting he explore himself then you have nothing to worrier about. The problem come when there is rejection or denial or nonacceptance by you, That will then lead him being uncomfortable with his significant other, So make sure u communicate so that u may find clarity with him and yourself also.
2006-12-27 13:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by zionputo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is normal?! Normal is what you think it is. The fact that there is a term for this means that he is not alone so he can't be that abnormal. He likes being with you? He satisfies you? Hes not harming anyone? Its no one's business what he does, except you. If you have no problem with his behavior, then don't worry about it. I wouldn't talk about it though as that is that taboo. the personal relationship that should stay behind doors.
2006-12-27 13:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Neptune 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it be glad he is into you and not somebody else. Sex toys are fun for men just the same as they are for women. Variety is exciting and run so enjoy.
2006-12-27 13:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be worried i don't think he is gay, be happy that he is that comfortable with you that he can be open with you telling you he likes that, most men wouldn't admit it if it was true., and keep up the oral that's very important for men
2006-12-27 13:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by whynot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Though I wouldn't do it, I've head that stimulating the prostate can be very pleasurable, so I guess it's not too abnormal. I hope it's one of your smaller toys.
2006-12-27 13:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by boredperv 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You shouldn't be concerned as long as he does it with you. Any sexual activity done with the opposite sex is hetorosexual. If he chooses to do it alone, you might have a problem.
2006-12-27 13:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is strange, but then again, no stranger then the fact that you introduced this into your marriage to start with. Hey, you got it, which kind of opened the door, right?
2006-12-27 13:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a turn on for me. To think...this has been inside my wife, soaking in her...and now I get to feel it in me? Big turn on here. Maybe a little gross to other people, but everyone has their own likes and dislikes.
2006-12-27 19:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by Guvo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋