I don't think they deserve what I have spent my whole life to get....so IF i ever marry, they either sign one or find someone else.
2006-12-27 05:27:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, he's smart.
2006-12-27 05:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by cadillacrazy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion a pre nup would only be an issue if I was marrying for the mans money so I so heck yeah a pre-nup protects both parties!
2006-12-27 05:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person doesnt want to sign one, simply pose this question to them.
If it is real love, why would you mind signing it? If it is real love and we both will follow our commitments and vows, how would the pre-nup affect anything anyway. It would only come into play in a divorce, which real love doesnt. Come on now. Why should you expect me to do this or that to prove love? Why should you not be willing to prove your love by showing me that you have nothing to fear by signing? Could it be that you are what I am scared you might be or might turn into it and dont want to face or admit it?
Frankly, I think that ever couple should have a signed marriage contract, more comprehensive then a prenup. It should include civil penalties for certain actions.
2006-12-27 05:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both my wife and I decided early on to have a pre-nuptial agreement in place prior to our marriage.
We had both previously been married and taken to the cleaners by the gold digging ex's.
We are now in our 23rd year of marriage and happily married. We still stand by the agreement. Although I haven't acquired many additional assets she has inherited ton's of assets and cash from her deceased parents.
I suggested she up date the pre-nuptial agreement to make positively sure those assets would remain her's regardless of what transpired in our marriage. Especially if for some unknown reason we divorce.
Pre-nuptial agreements should be the order of the day for every marriage would make divorce divison of property so much easier.
2006-12-27 05:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't marry someone who insisted on a pre-nup. I dont feel that pre-nups are right, becuase they show that a person doesn't trust you. Why would you marry someone with doubts going in that you are going to stay with them?
2006-12-27 05:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by anna b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It relies upon of what you have. yet you may desire to comprehend there is not any such factor as a prenup that can not be challenged. And any supplies that have been obtained after the marriage are continuously honest game. for my section i've got reached a evaluate my existence the place i be attentive to i'm in no way getting married. i like my existence how this is and that i'm financially nicely off and does not commerce that for all people. each and every person is going to throw around believe and love and of direction each and every marriage starts off with them and ends without them. yet in fact 50% of first marriages end and the probabilities worsen after that so why not plan for the worst? My question is why could all people even date somebody who isn't their equivalent? Why even start up a courting in case you may desire to hold the different guy or woman financially? popping out in the back of whilst it comes time to divide supplies is the fee you pay for marrying somebody who's frankly not your equivalent. ------- consistent with the added info: I agree a hundred%. in case you the two going into it alongside with your eyes open and as equals you may the two opt to devise for the worst. not purely like the previous there is 0 reason to be in a courting with somebody different than love. i don't choose a girl to prepare dinner sparkling or something of the different motives maximum of our grandparents stayed jointly. and he or she shouldn't choose me to help her financially. --- the reason the supplies obtained throughout the time of a marriage are seen in lots of states to be community belongings is that this is impossible for the courtroom to be certain possession. so as that they get divided 50/50. yet once you're equals interior the marriage then neither guy or woman gets harm too badly. My suggestion is marry somebody who's your equivalent and demand that they proceed being your equivalent after the marriage. ...
2016-12-11 17:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would becuase in my opinion it protects both parties interest to get a pre-nup. She can make sure her needs are met and so can he.
2006-12-27 05:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by aQTinMVny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a well established person to request a pre-nuptual agreement. It would be foolish not to request one. We don't get a guarantee that our spouse is going to stay with us forever, so we do need something that protects our assets. If she truely loved you and wanted to be with you, then she would sign with no problem. Good luck and GOD bless.
2006-12-27 05:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'd wonder why he's already planning the divorce. Better to find a guy who's serious about entering a life partnership.
2006-12-27 05:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this obviously heavily depends on just what you "have to get" - can't "get" anything if there's nothing to "have".
However, in the cases where there is money, savings, retirement, stocks, etc etc - YES. You are smart and anyone who is with you for the right reasons wouldn't blink a lash at your request.
2006-12-27 05:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by hjfr27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it cause that would be making presevations for the marriage not to last. I wouldn't sign it at all. So yeah, i will find someone else.
2006-12-27 05:31:58 · answer #11 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋