I think my friend is a lesbian and can't figure out if she likes me or not. We were watching a movie and she will lightly rub my foot and leg and I might be getting feelings for her becuz i rub back but nuthing Fast we go slow. We will lay next to eachother on the bed. I just can't figure it out. PLZ HELP!!
2006-12-27 05:26:34 · 7 answers · asked by flickchick 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That is the beginning, hahaha But ahh, don't kiss her until you find out what is really going on. Friendly play and cuddling is ok but if you kiss her right away she may take offense to it. It's better to be safe than sorry. Just talk to her and see where it goes then go from there.
2006-12-27 12:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Noclue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you two are in a comfortable, somewhat private location have a friendly, non confronting, somewhat affectionate tone to your voice and just ask...
'what's going on?' or 'tell me what you are thinking' or 'what's on your mind' or 'would you like to share something with me?' or 'want to unburden your mind???'
'Whatever it is, I'll always be your friend and I'm there for you.'
If she says what do you mean? Then say I don't know if you realize it but you are touching me and I'm not sure how to take it.
Otherwise you'll be wondering for a very long time or you'll end up in a weird situation that you'll have to explain yourself.
Just be gentle, understanding and open to talk back with her.
Good luck!
2006-12-27 05:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gigi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her camouflage boxers have that fresh just laundered smell, then Cupids cue stick has found it's target. That, or she has a weird foot fetish and her past relationships resemble a crooked lottery and she always forgets to buy tickets.
2006-12-27 05:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she might like you or she might just be a touchy type person. based on what you say, she hasn't really done anything! the only way to know is simply ask her if she likes anyone or if she's into anyone right now. or bring up the idea of you dating and see how reacts.
2006-12-27 07:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by forget_you_stfu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try giving her a friendly kiss on the lips. If she kisses you back, take it to the next level and put your hand on the back of her head and give her some tongue. You should be able to figure out if she's interested by then.
2006-12-27 05:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Autumn 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Judging by your question I think she is a lesbian.
2006-12-27 05:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by ThinkWiseAk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your freind is a lesbian. And yes I do like you A LOT!!
2006-12-27 05:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋