I've been a insecure about my sexuality at times in the past year, so tell me if you think that the reason below is sufficient to rule out the possibility that I might be gay:
-when I have sex in my dreams, it is only with women.
I only ask because lately (year or so) i have been insecure and can't say for sure if I am straight, even though I've always been positive before. Subconsciously in my dreams I seem to be sure of my orientation, so should I stop being confused?
2006-12-27 05:14:45 · 9 answers · asked by james Link 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do not feel insecure about whatever feelings you have. They will reveal themselves in time. Either way, if you have questions there are plenty of resources to use for answers. Do not feel that you are alone or different from anyone else. Whatever you end up liking will come naturally.
2006-12-27 05:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its highly unlikely that you are gay. However you may be 'bi'. But the thing is whatever your sexual orientation is, it will reveal itself over time. Don't mess up you life trying to decide weather you are straight or gay. Based on what you've said, I think you are straight, just a bit unstable - probably just a phase. Don't worry - Sweet dreams!
2006-12-27 13:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give time to time. Dont worry about anything. DOn't think about neither onefor a selected period of time and then after a couple of month(preferable) go out and start looking for a partner. Then you'll mind will be clear and you will be able to decide if isa man or a woman, that you want. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-27 13:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as know men should be attracted to women. That's how it was created to be. BE STRAIGHT. You are not confused, or anything like that. Just get yourself a nice woman and you will be fine
2006-12-27 17:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Diamond C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There´s posibility that you are; however, it also depends on your age since some teenagers are confused about their sexuality, also you didn't told us that much about the situation: have you been in love with a woman? have you been in love with a man? Dreams themselves don't tell almost anything (if anything) about someone's orientation.
2006-12-27 13:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Betta Franka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say nothing about being attracted to men, what makes you confused?
2006-12-27 13:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by thomas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are whatever you want to be
if you want to be gay then be gay
if you wanna be straight then be straight
maybe you're just bi?
2006-12-27 13:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Emo Thug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're, unfortunatley for me at least, straight.
2006-12-27 13:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by Out and Proud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal. and straight.
2006-12-27 13:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by barbara l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋