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YEAH REALLY THIS IS BAD I NEED ADVISE IM STILL NOT SHOWING IT JUST A LITTLE BUMP BUT THE DOCTORS SAYS IT A HEALTHY BABY HELP I NEED ADVISE.

2006-12-27 05:12:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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You need to tell someone that you trust (your mom, a friend's mom) so that you can plan what to do next- you are awfully young to be raising a baby and you are going to need help, proper medical care and guidance. Hang in there. I hope everything works out.

2006-12-27 06:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by mluikart 2 · 0 0

Calm down stress isn't good for the baby.Talk to your mom and apologize cause she will be so mad.Talk to the father.Don't get an abortion that is so nasty.Consider adoption or keeping the child.But if you do you need to be careful do you realize that when the baby is 15 you will be 28 and his friends will be like your mom is hot!!!So like you should have had protected sex.What I advise is it is a family matter and keep it within the family.But i don't think your teachers will be to thrilled with a pregnant girl in their grade 8 class!

2006-12-27 14:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Step 1: In form a parent or gaurdian, or at least an adult that you trust. I would also recommend planned parenthood. They really can help you to weight your options. Adoption, Abortion or teenage motherhood. In the meantime, don't tkae any medications that the offer you, especially not experimental ones, avoid junk food and alcohol (wait your underage...) don't smoke, take drugs, and try to eat healthy, sleep well, stay in school, and get plenty of excersise long wlaks really do help,make sure that you don't do anything that could harm your baby. Also, make sure to discuss your opstions before it is too late take action on any of them (like abortion). Good Luck, and please try to be more careful about sex.

2006-12-27 07:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by happiest_phantom 2 · 0 0

Oh sweetie, you're so youthful yet your mum won't depart, why do you think of that? appears like your boyf should not be lots help so your mum is the guy you desire. i think of you're able to take a seat her down and clarify which you have made a brilliant mistake, and you desire her help and which you do no longer desire her to be mad as you like her, and then tell her. you're able to assume her to be offended yet this is basically the marvel, after that i'm beneficial she will have the skill to take a seat with you and you will wade via what's terrific to do next, regardless of if that be adoption, abortion or preserving it, despite the fact which you sound smart adequate to understand that this could replace your destiny plans thoroughly and is tougher at 13 than at 30, yet don't be aggressive returned to her if she gets mad, shes basically going to be disillusioned that her infant has have been given in this occasion. sturdy success sweetie x

2016-10-28 11:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to talk to someone close to you that you can trust. You need to weigh your options. Abortion, Adoption,Teenage motherhood. These are your options. Talk to an adult that you trust to get you pointed in the right direction to help you map out plan of action. Get plenty of sleep, eat right and go for long walks. I have found that walking is not only good for a person phsically but it also helps a person to think. Good luck....

2006-12-27 06:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 1 0

Two things, one I hope you've told your parents hun, and two, 13 is a rough age because that's how old I am.Alot of 13 year olds make great parents but just go along with it and I'd stick with the child, raise it but it's up to you.

2006-12-27 17:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby Victoria 2 · 0 0

i know what your goin through..... dont worry i know your probly scared and really stressed but what you have to do is one tell an ADULT you trust that can help you, two decide if you are keeping it, three dont blame your self for ANYTHING it makes it a whole lot worse. if you do decide to keep it there are usually alot of places that will help you. i hope that you take this advice...from 14 yr old to 13 yr old. if you ever need advice or are worried about stuff about being pregnant than just email me ok! jamee_lynne@hotmail.com or jamee981@yahoo.com

2006-12-27 08:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by jamee981 2 · 0 0

You should tell your parents and either take care of it like a good mom would or give it up for adoption if you choose to throw the baby away. Better than killing it.

2006-12-27 06:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0 0

Because you made an idiotic move, and it is too late to change back the clock, you need to tell your parents and make the decision on whether you are going to put the baby up for adoption, keep it, or any other choices that you have. AND MAKE A MENTAL NOTE: MAYBE IF YOU USED PROPER PROTECTION, YOU WOULDN'T BE ASKING FOR DESPRATE HELP FROM PEOPLE YOU HAVE NEVER MEET/SEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-27 07:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by taytoes2008 1 · 0 0

gurl everyone makes mistakes, and u have mad a really big one. One thing you need to is talk to your mom, i know its gon be really hard to break it to her, if u havent already done so, but look everything happens for a reason, you have no idea wat great wonders this baby may bring to the world, and if the father doesnt want to be in the babys life, its all good gurl, that just shows wat kind of man he is,{{ he's not one!!}}, but yeh, just take care of yourself, and i wish u the best of luck, and i hope your baby remains healthy.

2006-12-27 09:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by POOKIE 1 · 0 0

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