shes married but the husband has been away for years now and they havnt seen eachother in thez same years. she is a friend to my cousins wife and i dont know how to tell her cant get her off my mind. and its killing me. help ladies shes 6 years older. am lounging 4 her touch1
2006-12-27 05:09:51 · 14 answers · asked by leo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask yourself honestly whether you're longing for something you know you can't have as a way of not dealing with available women. It's nice to carry a torch -- because it excuses you from more definite action and lets you live in your fantasy. If you want to take some real action, I think you could gently ask her if you see her and her hubby going the distance. Maybe she's filed him away in the past and just never went through the divorce paperwork, or maybe he's coming back someday. You could let her know that you would be interested if she were available, and see how she reacts -- but of course don't push for any gesture of commitment on her part; in her alone state she might think you're putting immediate moves on her. Find out what her plans are and honor them .. or see if you can figure in them, if there's a space available. Good luck.
2006-12-27 05:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you adorable! My advise would be to speak with her but be very cautious and don't come out crude...Also, make sure the husband is out of the picture, you don't want to get killed in the process. By the way, six years is not a lot.
2006-12-27 13:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by earthstarlatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of hunting season. Remember the signs stating "NO TRESPASSING"? You dont hunt there, lest you piss the land owner off and he gets mad, shoots you or has you locked up. Maybe both. Get it?
Plus what do you want with someone you know will cheat on the one they have now? Do you think they will do you better then the other guy?
2006-12-27 13:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't been in the picture for years she probably don't love him anymore. I would say to go for it. She may end up being the woman of your dreams, but if you don't talk to her and tell her how you feel, you will always wonder!! Invite her to a nice dinner and let her know how you feel! PRONTO!! Before another man beats you to it!! Good Luck!! Lover boy!!
2006-12-27 13:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by mamachula01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
6 years? Where is he? Why has she not divorced him? I mean if she felt that there was something wrong with thier relationship, she would have divorced him right? I think they must love one another, or perhaps he doesn't even exist, and you are wasting your time. Find another who can give you the time of day, NO STRINGS ATTACHED!!!
2006-12-27 13:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by LaRae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that you are fully aware of her marriage but here lately you have been unable to get her off your mind. You have held back due to her being married but you are no longer able to control you self and have been compelled to let her know how you feel about her.
2006-12-27 13:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hubby's not in the picture at all??? but there as been no divorce????? Eh' tell her...get it done and over with, that way you know how she feels...and if she tells you to **** off then you need to! Good luck!
2006-12-27 13:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by So you think you know me!? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Husband is gonna cap a pop in your a s s. Snap out of it, dog!
2006-12-27 13:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So... you want what you can't get?
Stop - there are many wonderful women in the right cirtcumstances - you may be asking for problems.
2006-12-27 13:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop crushing about her and find someone available who is closer to your age.
2006-12-27 13:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋