My girlfriend split up with me 1 month ago(the reason is still unclear, even to her i think) I sent her a gift certificate and flowers just before Christmas. She received them the day she was writing a University exam. She contacted me 1 week after the delivery and after catching up a bit, the first thing she said about the gift was that it was a distraction. Eventually she did say thank you. If she did the breaking up and i've been respecting her space by not contacting her, then why was it " a distraction"? What does that mean?
2006-12-27 05:05:08 · 15 answers · asked by Chris G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to leave her alone, she is not ready for the relationship and maybe your gift made her think about it when she should have been thinking about her exam.
2006-12-27 05:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds confused. Maybe she felt like you were sending her the gift without regard for her exam and she was offended (hence the "distraction"). But the fact that she contacted you indicates to me that she must have strong feelings for you. Even if she's calling to insult you, she's still calling you. She could have just ignored it and said nothing. I think she wants to talk to you but doesn't want to commit to it. Let her come to you.
2006-12-27 13:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's weird, that's a mean thign to say to someone who took the time out of their day to do something nice for you. Get rid of her... if you don't even know why you 2 broke up maybe she just wasn't into it or like I said she's just weird. I'd be super excited to receive random flowers! Even if they are distracting... plus they couldn't of been all that distracting to her since it took her a whole week to call.
2006-12-27 13:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mishee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused by that as well and I'm a woman. It could mean one of two things:
1) It was a positive distraction as she'd been studying so hard and it gave her a much needed break or cheered her up
OR
2) It was a negative distraction and broke her concentration or messed with her flow or Chi while studying/ writing her exam.
Either way, I would move on if I were you.
2006-12-27 13:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lilith 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A better set of questions for you.
Why try to figure out what she meant? Is she retarded or merely trying not to give you any answers? She is a big girl and she should be made to prove it by her actions. She should be able to communicate honestly and clearly. If she cant/more likely wont, then it is either by choice or she is stupid. In neither case should you take one moment to try to figure it out. She is the one who should explain it. You should also be glad that she has broken it off, for it would not improve in the future. Trust me on this.
2006-12-27 13:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's simple she had no REAL grounds to break up with you, and she still has feelings for you and the Gifts were a reminder that she still feelings for you Hence she calls them a "Distraction".
Hint: GO FOR HER
2006-12-27 13:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by miss phines 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In woman language that means that she is unsure of her feelings towards you, that she has too many things going on and with all the thought you put into buying and sending her that, it threw her off and couldn't think straight. That or it means she's just crazy.
2006-12-27 13:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Enterrador 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
"it" wasn't a distraction. You were a distraction. Pay the receptionsist on the way out. Thank you.
2006-12-27 13:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe its a distraction because shes been thinking of you and your gift is making her think about you and its distracting her from other things :)...does that help?
2006-12-27 13:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just forget about her she is plain mean and rude dont call her and if she calls you tell her you are bussy and that you will call her back and dont you will see that eventually she will be looking for you she is just playing games
2006-12-27 13:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋