I broke up with my b/f of two and a half years the day after christmas. I am now dating his friend. We both made it kind of mutual when we broke up. Now when he sees me even talking to his friend he looks sad. Was I too harsh?? Will he lose his best friend over this or eventually come to accept it??
2006-12-27 04:56:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Is it wrong for me to feel bad and want to undo all of this??
2006-12-27 05:07:20 · update #1
It is only 2 days after Christmas!!! You broke up with a guy yesterday and are already dating his friend?
Well yeah, that would be harsh... and sleezy.
You are throwing the entire 2-1/2 years that you spent with you ex b/f down the drain. No wonder he feels sad. It is like you didn't even care about the realtionship, him, or the things you guys did.
It is probably for the better that you guys aren't together!
2006-12-27 06:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by I am Crystal S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was harsh... how would you feel if he broke up with you and dated your best friend right away- or even anytime! That's just one hidden rule of dating, you shouldn't go after their friends. I think it's just wrong. So of course he has every right to feel sad... he had a friend that betrayed him and a girlfriend that did too. So yes, if it were myself, I'd not talk to that friend ever again, but even more- I wouldn't talk to you ever again either... so hopefully he'll get over both of you and never talk to either of you again... it's just wrong.
2006-12-27 13:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by m930 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u shouldnt have dated his best friend rite away that was really messed up, even though ur bf acted like it was nothing it obviously hurt him a lot, and i think that if their friendship is ruined it would be because of u, u shouldve at least waited until a month later thats the least. so yes u were to harsh on him
2006-12-27 14:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could you do that? that is the worst thing ever. uh i think you ruined their relationship forever. you should be ashamed. breaking up with your boyfriend of over 2 years the day after xmas and then start dating his friend right away. that is mean and very harsh. i dont know how anyone can do that. so you had feelings for his friend before you even broke up with your bf. that is low. i hope he didnt get you anything for christmas cuz you sure as to hell dont deserve anything.
2006-12-27 13:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by malibu 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that is pretty sad. i feel sry for the boy :(
i mean did u relly like break it to him like "i don't like u anymore an blah blah..."
but i actually think u did a good thing in a way i mean u couldn't have led him on anymore. it's sorta good, an if u really weren't feeling rite with him anymore it's also better for you.
so although it must have been harsh an a big jumble bumble of ****, it's for the better in the end. i mean love is pain. an u'll all get over it..............eventually
2006-12-27 13:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow so you broke up with him YESTERDAY and you are already dating his best friend.
You are going down a long road that I don't think you should be on. Why not take some time for yourself and see where you end up before committing to another relationship?
Good luck!
2006-12-27 13:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Zeida98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were harsh with your boyfriend. You could have waited a while until you went out with his friend.It all depends on how he gets over his feelings for you which he may never do. Then you are young so thats why you made this rash decision.
2006-12-29 06:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that was harsh. Did you break up with him so you could go with his friend? He will probably loose his best friend and it will take him a while to accept it but he will one day.
2006-12-27 13:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by Audrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is too harsh LEAVE HIS FRIENDS ALONE!!!!! not a good idea to date his friend cause now he has lost two people. And he probaly needed his friend to talk to after but couldn't.
2006-12-27 13:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
so you went out with this guy for over two yrs then the like day after xmas you started going out with his friend.. thats pretty harsh
2006-12-27 13:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋