ok you know how little kinds and dogs can sense things no one else can it true!!! No one knows that im gay most cant even tell but all of a sudden my little cousin who is 4 kept trying to kiss me on the lips that toally weirded me out. Then when we were alone out of no where he says "ARE YOU GAY" i was like omg how does he know how can he tell how does he even know what gay means what is this saying what do you think about this situation.
P.S. I told him no im not out no one knows.
2006-12-27 04:35:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I dont act gay most adults cant even tell no one has tolod him im gay either because the family thinks im straight.
2006-12-27 04:41:58 · update #1
Everyone always underestimates kids! They can really knock you socks off can't they! Hope you are "out" and happy soon!
2006-12-27 04:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. tell him that kissing grown up boys on the lips is a nono yet dont take that as his approval of you being gay ( nor all and assorted else the two) Im guessing somebody on the factor to him has pronounced that your gay in front of him and hes responding to that. you be attentive to your precise that youngsters can experience issues like that, yet they dont neccasarilly understand what it somewhat is they're getting to grasp from you or approximately you. shop it far off from a 4 yo, he's no longer waiting for it and if he repeats it to his mothers and dads they could scream out which you're a pedophile and its you who taught all this gay stuff to their angelic infant boy. So guy shop it far off from little boys
2016-10-28 11:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. either people know and are talking about it behind your back and he overheard
or...
2. you said or did things (maybe on the phone) in his presence, thinking that he was too young to understand (but he does)
I am thinking more that it is #1
Being a dad myself, I can tell you about the honesty of young children. You should ask this kid very nonchalantly, "Why did you ask me if I was gay?" I will bet that you will get an honest answer to your question.
2006-12-27 04:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would a 4 year old know the word gay unless someone told him, there's no way he thought of it himself
2006-12-27 08:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure nobody suspects that you're gay because sometimes little kids repeat what they've heard, could be that someone has been talking about you being gay or he asked you that because you kissed him and he's male.
2006-12-27 04:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think he could possibly know. His parents may have told him about it. Or another kid might have. I sense that my 4 year old nephew is gay and he has no clue and there is no reason he should cuz that is too early of an age to even know about sex.
2006-12-27 04:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, more people know than you think.
Second, He probably heard it because someone mentioned it in front of him.
Third, I would definitely not be found alone with this boy.
You need to ask yourself if your choice is influencing this boy in a healthy way.
2006-12-27 04:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grownups were talking about you and he heard.You're more OUT than you realize.
2006-12-27 04:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something that he heard are see and he add them all up.
2006-12-27 05:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone knows and told him, don't be stupid. no one can read minds
2006-12-27 04:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by monochrome R 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋