my boyfriend keeps pushing me into bed everytime im at his house or hes at mine. he is always saying stuff and grabing parts of my body that are inappropriate. i want to wait until after marrige and i dont know if he can wait that long what should i do?
2006-12-27 03:54:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
tell him no means no and if he keeps at it, it's called rape then! I would say if he doesn't stop dump him, because you deserve someone better than that.
2006-12-27 05:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jyse 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All good advice from the others. The bottom line is simple..as was stated, he lacks respect for your personal feelings and is only thinking of his hormonal feeling. I would seriously reconsider this relationship with him because if he cannot respect you now, it will only become worse. If you give in to him, you will enable the potential control freak and that NEVER produces a good outcome. A man who truly loves you, loves you for YOU and not only can wait, but will wait for you.
2006-12-27 12:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by S H 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rape is rape. No matter what, no matter how far the action is going, when a girl says no then it becomes rape if the dude keeps on. Dump him. He's trying to use your body and that's all. If he has any respect for you he will stop.
By the way, what the H*** is he doing in your bedroom or you in his. That is an invitation for date rape, honey.
2007-01-01 16:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Donald W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good advice from everyone, Jason K was close it is not actually rape it is sexual assault. If you continue to accept his assaults you are only going to get hurt or worse. Tell him NO is not negotiable and if he persist in the sexual assaults you will have no choice but to file charges against him.
If he truly loves you he will stop the activity and respect you for your wanting to wait.
Good Luck
2006-12-27 13:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by huricanelance 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry @$$! If he can't respect you then why would you want to be with him? It's not okay for him to try to force you to do something that you don't want to do. If he can't respect the fact that you want to wait then he isn't worth keeping around!
2006-12-27 15:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by briden31 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I waited until I was married to have sex and my (now husband) never pressured me into anything. You need to find a man who respects you and loves you for who you are and all your beliefs. They are out there, you know. Good luck
2006-12-27 14:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend you do not appreciate his inappropriate touching and that if he really cares for you he will stop it. If he doesn't stop it then get rid of him as a boyfriend as he is not thinking at all about your feelings.
2006-12-27 11:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if you haven't told him what you told us it's your fault.. if he knows this already and still pushes the limit then it's his fault and you might want to speak with him , if you've been together for a long time i think you should really consider having sex because you might lose him.. but if you don't love the bastard DUMP HIM!!
2007-01-04 06:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by happy life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser! You are precious and if he can't wait then have him find someone willing to give it up and leave you alone.
2006-12-27 12:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by chickadee2624 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well there is 95% that you give up before marriage or just tell him.... he would end the relationship or 2.. wait.
2006-12-28 16:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋