or have had atleast thoughts about being with another Girl? There were numerous suvery's done by various magazines and newspaper regarding this and they say that over 80% of the woman have had sexual thoughts about other woman. Especially in the 17-25 category. Now..whether they act on it or not is a different story. But what do you think of this?
2006-12-27 03:53:18 · 38 answers · asked by G 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes, women are beautiful, and i would agree that 80% have had sexual thoughts...
but why is it men consider it sexy for women to feel that way but not men?
2006-12-27 03:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes - and lads too, I think it is realistic to assume that this level of interests is not exclusive to one gender or the other.
Now that such things are finally losing their stigma (goodness only knows why we ever tolerated such petty hangups in the first place) - people of both genders are feeling much more able to openly admit to curiosity - or active enjoyment of both sides.
Usually, folks have a strong preference for one gender or the other - but VERY few people can truly say they have not had more than a passing interest at one point or another.
This is partly cultural too, as for some races, bisexuality is considered the norm - and certainly in ancient times, a Greek man would be EXPECTED to have a wife to produce offspring and "keep house" - and a "boy" (young man) for pleasure - esepcially when the wife was "out of service".... To do otherwise was considered a little "strange". In the fullness of time, the young man would marry a women for himself and would take a lad on - as would the older married man find a replacement too.
It was usually religion - and historically the need to breed plenty of children to keep growing replacements for those lost in war that caused the initial "anti-gay" approaches. The church because is had difficult in controlling monks and nuns, the crown because it wanted a high birth rate.
These days a LOW birth rate is practical (we have too many people on the planet) and thankfully religion is now being taken quite rightly as a "vague guide for those that wish it" rather than as a literal set of orders which must ve obeyed - some notable fanatics excepted.
As such - and because enjoying sexuality is no longer regarded as "shameful" by practical, realsitic folks, many people now feel able to be more honest with themsevles - and others - about what "floats their boat".
At last :)
PS: In respect of Dukalinks question "how does it benefit nature" - a fair question - I would sugest that having a few people who are not keen on increasing the population yet further can only be an excellent move. Many parts of Africa for example is SCREAMING out for a halt in population growth - or the famine will NEVER end. There are other benefits too, but I somehow reckon I've waffled on enough already :)
2006-12-27 04:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do believe women are more affectionate than men, but saying that women are nuturally lesbians is like saying people are naturally murderers. I think it's a tendency to reach beyond the boundries of love and enjoy sex to it's extreme.
I have to ask, where does that notion come from? My belief is the temptation of impurity. I think God set boundries where we can live (not under water) and what we can eat (not poison) and how we can live, with in the boundries of His design. Anything else is impure and can only lead to a life less than His design.
2006-12-27 04:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was watching some sort of Discovery Health Channel program that said that women tend to be turned on by a wide variety of sexual stimulus, whereas men are not. I think it's true.
2006-12-27 03:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think that most or some woman have thought about another girl, and whether they choose to act on it is another situation!
2006-12-27 03:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps that's true, especially for the younger ones. Not so much for me though, women in a sexual way, are not my cup of tea so to speak.
2006-12-27 03:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think women naturally look at other women. I don't believe through that most have sexual feelings towards other women.
2006-12-27 03:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
I think it is a myth from the playboy channel.
Another way they mess up peoples Ideas about sex and what bodies should look like.
and if you have thoughts but would never act on them, that does not make you BiSexual
I think its funny when guys say things like "lesbians are hot"
1. most do not look like playboy models
2. they have no use for you
2006-12-27 03:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by brainiac 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
But one must ask the bigger question: how does bisexuality benefit nature?
It seems to serve no real biological purpose and having these "thoughts" scare a lot of people.
2006-12-27 03:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. but acting on it... that IS different story. Most just wonder about it... which is human nature. And most women I know, question EVERYTHING.
2006-12-27 03:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Maria G. G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who kissed a girl before, and I know more lesbians than gay guys, but that never appealed to me. I happen to love men lol
2006-12-27 03:55:54 · answer #11 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋