Success Stories after Miscarriage???

Question

Hi,

I had a miscarriage on Christmas Day - just went to my doctor to get everything looked after. He thinks from what I'm saying I had a miscarriage, but checking my levels weekly from now on to make sure everything is passed etc.

Has anyone ever passed any tissue and still had a heatlhy pregnancy carry to full term?

I guess I'm still holding onto some hope but I really shouldn't. I''ll save you all the TMI. I only bleed for 3 days and not that much. I did pass 2 sets of tissue - which I thought was weird cause I've only really heard about people passing 1 thing of tissue. My heart goes out to anyone thats had a miscarriage cause it was really more emotionally draining than physically. I only had mild cramps and mild back pain - no really bad pain thankfully.

Answer 1

Hello There,

Let me first just say that I am so sorry for your loss. I have underwent that pain (on more than one occasion) and it certainly leaves you feeling numb. But I am here to tell you that in time, this too will pass.

Please have faith that you too will have a little one. And yes, I passed 2 sets of tissue as well, so it is very normal. You will have your good days as well as your bad. Give yourself permission to feel the full range of emotions. I just experienced my 2nd miscarriage two months ago.

My best friend had 2 miscarriages and now enjoys 3 small girls. This is of no comfort, but miscarriages happen more often than we think. You will hold your little one in your arms. Just regroup, and be prepared! At least you know you can conceive and alot of women unfortunately are unable. You will carry a baby term. Just take care of yourself and let nature happen again.

God Bless you and your little angel.

Answer 2

Well I can answer your question because I have been there 3 times. The first time I had cramping and a little tissue pass and I did miscarry. It does not matter how much tissue you pass the only way to make sure you did have one is for the doc to take your blood and see what your levels are now and take it again in a few days and see if it had dropped. If you had clots pass and you are not that far along it can just feel like a period. I had one at 6 weeks the first time 11 weeks the second time and 5 weeks the third time.( it was bad with the one at 11 weeks) I was so mad and emotionally stressed! I had these all within a year. I then waited another year and I have a baby who is now almost a year ( on the 30) who is perfect!! I will tell you once I got it off my mine and settled down and then tried again later we finally had a baby ( I did deliver early...at 35 weeks...but she was ok) I think I have a problem with pre-term labor but for you many ...like 1 in 4 have a miscarriage in there first pregnancy...so it is not unusual.

I would just go to the doc and have him test you again that is all you can do. ( I had a sudden loss of pregnancy symptoms also...)

Good Luck thing will be good again I promise

Answer 3

I have had 2 miscarraiges recently 1 in April of 05 and the other in November of 05. I didn't think I was going to be able to have any more children, but I am currently 33 weeks pregnant, due in February. Other than the fact that the Dr. says I will probably not last until 40 weeks, everything seems to be going well. So, there is still hope for you. Don't think that just because you had a miscarraige that you won't ever be able to have kids. My mother had a miscarraige just before she got pregnant with me and ended up having another baby 6 years after I was born, so it does happen. It most likely just means that something wasn't quite right with this one.

I do feel for you. It is very emotionally draining to lose a baby, I hadn't wanted any more children since I already had 2 boys, but I really did want a girl so I was pretty upset after I lost the last 2 (both at apprx10 weeks). Now I'm finally getting my girl and I'm very excited.

Good luck to you and think happy thoughts!!

Answer 4

I had a miscarriage at 10 1/2 weeks. We watited 2 cycles and tried again. Took us 2 times, but we had a healthy baby boy in October of 2005. I am currently pregnant with number 2 and due in July. This time it was first try.

You have a very good chance of carring to full term with another pregnancy. Miscarriages are very common, I know several people who have had 1 or more and eventually carried to full term.

Answer 5

my second miscarriage was the worst. i passed tons of huge clots with tissue in them. thy were like about 4 inches by 4 inches big. Lots and lots came out. It really depends on how far along you are. Once you start passing tissue its better for you to keep bleeding and such for awhile. If not not everyhing will pass. As sick as it sounds it can like cont to grow. Which will make you very sick and could kill you. I've never started bleeding and was able to keep the pregnancy. I'm sorry...but I can say now after loosing 4 babies I am 32 weeks pregnant and having little complications. Nothing too serious. I've been on bed ret for like a week. Hopefully I'll get off at my next visit....Thursday. Hopefully you will be the one that has been able to stay pregnant thought I hve never heard of it.

Answer 6

When I was 17 years old I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks, and now 6 years later I have two very healthy babies. I had no problems with my pregnancy and carried them both until full term. My mother-in-law in fact had two miscarriages. She had one before she had my husband, and after my husband. After her second miscarriage she went back to the doctor to make sure everything was okay and found out she was pregnant with my sister-in-law. So all I have to say to you is that I know it is discouraging and very upsetting but even after miscarriage you can still have a very wonderful baby.

Answer 7

I had a miscarriage when I was in my twenties. I went through stages of grief. At first I was very scared and then sad. I wondered what sex it was and next I wondered if I had done something wrong. I had recently painted a room and wondered if the fumes caused it. I slowly began to except the event and one reason was that I found out it was so common. My mother-in-law worked as a nurse in a blood bank and she told me lots of times it is caused by a mismatch in blood elements (I don't know the certainty of this) and that made me feel better. I also believe I will meet my child in heaven. Now I am 62 but I have never forgotten that fetus that would have grown into a person and I think of him or her with love. It also makes me thankful for my other children.

Answer 8

hi this is my third pregnancy this year I'm 33 weeks pregnant now the first two I lost both at about six weeks so I understand the hope you have as I did to until I had my ultra sounds but this pregnancy I had a bleed for a day and it was fine it can be normal my doctor told me but i didn't lose any tissue hope all gos well and you are still pregnant.

Answer 9

i had a late miscarriage, had to deliver....then went on to have a healthy pregnancy, she is now 3 1/2 and I am pregnant with another, 14 weeks along now. It can be done. I am sorry to hear about whats happening to you.

Answer 10

i had a misccarriage in Oct and it was the worst thing i went thorugh it was so painful........my doc told me to wait 3 months to start again and sure enough i found out i was pregnant this month yeaaaaaaaaaaaaa!