i had unprotected intercouse on 12/2/ and a 12/9...i checked the feritilty calculater and it said i was ovulating on the 12/2 thru 12/6. My last pd was 11/20. i took a preg test this morning and it was neg. was it too early to test? i have absoultely no symptoms of a pd, only feeling tired, sleepy and headaches sometimes a little dizzy. i finally have insurance again want to schdule an appt for first week of jan. what are u guys opinion?
2006-12-27 03:39:21 · 21 answers · asked by dominicanay2k 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Abortion is wrong its murder. Just my opinion!
2006-12-27 03:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
You took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. I'd wait another week and take a second one. Chances are you're not pregnant, but if you're stressed about it, then it may be affecting your pd. If you're really worried, go to your Dr.
btw- how come you know when you're ovulating and why do you have a fertility calender? Usually only women who want to get pregnant know that kind of info.
A word of advice, if you and your boyfriend don't want to worry about pregnancy again, then I suggest using protection from this point forward
2006-12-27 11:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by married2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the genius had unprotected sex with you he should father the baby i had a friend who had a n abortion and later decided to have kids she freaks out sometimes at the thought that she destroyed a life then brought other babies into this world i do not personally agree with abortion but it is your choice not his so first off see if you are pregnant and keep in mind those calculators are not allways accurate i ovulated late and i am pregnant now with my 2nd child so do not allways trust those things i have raised a son so far he is about to be 8 in feb i had him when i was 16 and abortion was not something i considered allthough i was young and that is what the sperm donor wanted me to do i now have a wonderful husband who loves my son and we are a happy family think it through
2006-12-27 11:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by tasha l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it was too early to test. I think that maybe you are stressed about all of this, and that can cause your period to be late. I would suggest going to Planned Parenthood ( it's free ) and have them give you another test. If it shows up neg again, just relax and wait for your period to come.
As far as your choice to choose what you do with your body. Do what YOU feel is best for YOU! No one but you should make this decision for you. If YOU are not ready for a baby, and YOU don't feel that you are able to take care of it the way you should, then YOU make the choice. Good Luck, and try not to stress to much!
2006-12-27 11:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by One Race The Human Race 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, I believe it is a bit early for a pregnancy test to be accurate. I wouldn't jump to conclusions if I were you. There are many reason that you could be late, and if you fear you are pregnant, the only way, to put your mind at ease, is to see a doctor. If you find out that you are pregnant, then you need to sit down and talk to your boyfriend about the situation. Do not listen to these idiots, that say it is your body and only you have the right to make this decision. There are a couple reasons I say this. First off, few of them have been in your situation but they can all easily say what they THINK they would do. It is diffrent when you have been in this situation. I have been in this exact situation, and I have also been raised by a single mother. This doesn't make me right, but it does give me a better insight, than most people. Even though, it may be your body that shouldn't give you any more power to decide the childs life than the man. You have the choice to abort it, give it up for adoption, or have it. Your boyfriend only gets the option of being their or having his life ruined by by courts that rule for outragous monthly child support payments. What you have to decide is, do you want to raise this child alone? Your boyfriend has already suggested that you get an abortion. This means if you have it, he most likely is not going to be their for you or your baby, regardless if you think he will come around. On the contrary to what other people on here seem to think, this doesn't make him an asshole. It just makes him a man, that doesn't want children, without the option of giving it up for adoption because you force fatherhood on him. When I was in this situation, if the girl had decided to keep the child, I was fully prepaired to walk away. I have known, for along time, that I don't want children and was in the process of moving to canada to avoid the child support payments untill she decided to not keep it. If you do not agree with abortion, that is fine, give the child up for adoption. I was raised by a single mother and trust me, it was a shitty life, growing up. I love my mom to death for everything she has done for me, but a child in a single parent family, misses out on alot in life. So before you decide what you are gonna do, think long and hard of the consequences of all your options. Alot of people are going to disagree with my advice, some will be pissed and I really don't care. It is my opinion and I firmly believe that if men were given equal rights in this situation, it would solve alot of problems. And to the people, who instantly blurt out, you should have used protection and you wouldn't be in this situation, so deal with it. How do you know she didn't? Condoms and birthcontrol are not foolproof methods. I was using condoms with spermicide and the girl I was with still got pregnant.
2006-12-27 13:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Danny 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do what is best for you. It is not your boyfriends body. You need to make the dessision about the abortion if you are pregnant. And I think it is unfair of him to tell you that if he helped make the baby. You sound like a realy smart girl. If you are pregnant take time to seriously think things through before makeing that desission.Good luck to you on this chapter in your life.
2006-12-27 14:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, I know this is tough for you and I sympathize with your dilemma but I am a Christian and don't believe in abortion. Please don't listen to your boyfriend.
If it turns out that you are pregnant, there are many couples out there that would desperately like to have a child & for one reason or another can't have one of their own. This would be advice if you didn't want to keep the child yourself.
It almost sounds as though your boyfriend is automatically wanting to cop out on his responsibilities. You don't need someone like that.
May God be with you through this difficult decision.
2006-12-27 11:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_tea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see your doctor before you do anything. Abortion is a huge decision and no one should ever be bullied into it. I personally am against it in any circumstance. I think it should be illegal. Talk to people who love and support you and if you are pregnant, please know that if you don't want the baby, there are thousands of loving wonderful couples out there who would give ANYTHING for a baby to love and raise astheir own. Please consider adoption. If you are not pregnant, please cease having sex until you are married and your husband actually WANTS babies. God bless you.
2006-12-27 12:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by 4 Shades of Blue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now see, you are a trip. Because why would you have a fertility calendar when you know your boyfriend doesn't want to have children. You are trying to keep your man and it ain't gonna work. I hope you aren't pregnant. You're selfish and a child doesn't need a mother worrying more about herself than her child. Get it together girl!
2006-12-27 11:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by nochickenhead 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First find out if you're pregnant then make the decisions. In the future to make it easier for yourself and your bf use protection.
2006-12-27 11:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by laney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't decide on terminating the pregnancy until I knew I was pregnant. Because really, if he didn't want kids, ya'll should have been using pro-tec-tion. How selfish is he?
2006-12-27 11:49:56 · answer #11 · answered by Empress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋