This is for men only..why...........?

Question

Why is it that women (me) can cook clean do laundry take care of the kids...make sure they get to school do all the birthday planning presents gift wrapping and everything else so that things are in order but you men cant even lift a finger to help out a little bit when you get home from work and then expect sex around the clock and get up set when we say....IM TIERD????????????? please I would like only truthful answers...I just dont understand

Okay first of all I do have a part time job as a medical assistant and secondly my kids arent old enough to do for them selves my daughter is 16 months and my son is 5 then i have an 8 yr old step daughter...so Im gonna say this if your just gonna act like taking care of kids isnt hard then dont answer either that or....go do it for a while then get back to me k

Answer 1

Diz,

Sorry you bought one who has the two track mind ...like the man saud "Hungry or horny"..

Did ya save the sales recipt...can ya trade him in?

There are a guy who don't feel that way......

So I take it your a "Professional Home maker Child care provider"

Perhaps he feels thats your job ...... educate him.... teach him ...then take a trip to visit your mother or sister for a week and leave him with the kids .....I'm sure he has the vacation time .....let him play Mr. Mom for a while ...I bet you get alot more respect later on.....

Be creative ....I think you'll fine the men who don't think as your hubby does have been Mr. Mom for a while and know how much work it really is.

Best of Luck.

Answer 2

This is really a question for your husband, yes? Maybe I've turned into a big wuss, but I do the majority of the house work around here. My wife does do all the birthday and holiday planning stuff but that's because she gets some kick out of it and then likes to say I'm uninvolved. I'm way more involved with the kids than she is: I get involved with their home work and have been planning activities for them on their Christmas break. When she is home with them she just wants them to try and amuse themselves. Laundry and house cleaning doesn't get done if I don't do it. When she makes dinner, I clean up. When I make dinner, I clean up - so goes and takes a bath and then falls passes out everynight between 8:30 - 9:00. I'm beginning to wonder if she is depressed or something. I will trade with you. I would love to come over and split the chores and I would only expect sex twice a week - and I'm very accomodating in the sack! I'll make sure you get a great body rub, chills up your spine and if you enjoy oral, it's my specialty. You sound like you just want a hand with the basics, your hubby has got to understand that if you are happier, he will be happier. Although my efforts have gotten me no where .............................................................

Answer 3

ok i know taking care of kids is an all day job in order to keep the house clean you have to pretty much run right behind them picking stuff up and cleaning spilled juice and if your 16 mnth old is anything like mine the clothes and diaper comes off and you get little messes in the floor while your trying to clean a mess the other one just made. not to mention the shopping and paying bills doing dishes washing hubbys dirty work clothes its hard keeping a house organized men think that kids and house stuff isnt hard but how much time a day do they really spend watching the kids each day any ways? long enough for the wife to wash the sweat off for the husband to have sex with. lol thats about all the help i get here. men think because we are home more we have more free time than they do and if we dont do things they need done we are considered lazy and didnt do anything ignoring the fact weve been chasing kids all day. i am no man but i feel for you i know just how you feel and what you are going threw.

Answer 4

Well at our house it's a give and take. If she says she's tired, I believe her and I will tell her to sit down and I cook dinner after coming home from an 8-10 hour job (office). Then after dinner I give her a message until she falls asleep or feels rested enough for some "home cookin". When I come home home from work, she always has dinner ready except for those tired out days. No beef, we love each other and do stuff for each other not expecting anything in return. It's different though for guys who work 8-12 hour shifts on hard, manual jobs. They will tend to be less likely to help around, but hey can you blame them for working their butts off ? So not all men are the way you think, there are some of us out here that can go home and help around the house. Heck I get some exercise after sitting on my butt all day at the computer answering yahoo questions, lol !

Answer 5

Some ladies are the same way....
I am a single father so I have a full time job and do all the house work, laundry, birthdays, and so on.
Most people do not have respect any more, a relationship is a convenience instead of a partnership like it should be. The kids are the ones who suffer the most because more of your time is used doing all the work the less time with them.

Answer 6

If you had another job, besides being a stay at home mom, I could understand the griping. You have to understand what your man does all day at work. Just commuting to and from work is a pain in the butt anymore. I know you're feeling like you're the only one who is contributing when you're doing all the housework, but remember who's bringing home the bread. I'm not saying he shouldn't help out or show some appreciation for what you do, but remember, he's going to work, not escaping you.

Answer 7

Ummm... I cook, clean, do laundry, and take care of the animals more than my wife does. She brings home more money and works more hours than I do, so I don't have a problem with taking care of things around the house.

I'm not a usual guy, but the stereotyping is still a bit insultive.

Answer 8

I don't understand what this guy is thinking. Both my wife and I work, so we share almost all the little chores around the house. My wife can't cook, so I cook almost every meal, she tries every-once-in-a-while, and its not too bad. She cleans a lot. We make even trades. Your husband needs to get his priorities straight. He is definitley taking advantage of you doing all these things around the house, not to mention taking care of the kids too. You need to slap some sense into this man and get him off his butt. You know, you could slowly stop doing a lot of things that you're doing now, which might make him realize...wow, I have such a great wife who does all of these things, maybe I should get off my lazy butt and help her out. He needs a reality check. I hope everything goes well between you two.

Answer 9

I'm sorry but not all men are like that. I work full-time, do the laundry, cook, and clean the house.

I have no kids yet but I can imagine we'll both raise them up as an equal partnership.

Answer 10

the endless whinings of a stay at home mother....here...let's change things a bit. Go get a job, get up at 5...work 8-10 hour days then come home and have to do more and listen to your spouse nag endlessly. Maybe you should think about how lucky you are to be able to be a mother to your kids, how fortunate you are to have a husband who is able to provide enough of an income for you to be a mother. It could be worse--you could have to work at a full time job and only get to see your family 2 hours a day....