See my wife and i have been fighting alot, we both work long hours and combined earnings is over 300,000..Now here is the main part. What do i get her for her Birthday.
2006-12-27 03:15:13 · 15 answers · asked by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the hole point of tell you all how much we make is to tell you how much i have to play with... For her gift.
2006-12-27 03:40:41 · update #1
Hello,
I suggest that you talk with her one evening and see whats the one place she would love to have a vacation. Without her knowing this, get the tickets, hotel with spa of course and room service. Go on and pack her bag just an overnight bag..why? this is a whip your babe off to a love getaway!!
Bet your wondering what about our clothes we only got an over night bag!! Well hun take your wife shopping for new outfits!! (you pack more sorry but it's her birthday!!haha)
Ship the overnight bags on to the hotel that you will be staying FEDEX(yes this is very romantic trust me! she'll love it!) Use tracking also so your sure the items have arrived. Course call the hotel and let them know your items will be arriving before you but to place them in storage ( they do this)
Now call her job speak with the boss and explain whats going on and that she will need X amount of days off. And for her boss to play a role also... Her boss will need to tell her " Mrs. X you look very tired and the office will be doing blank blank so go ahead and take 5 days off.." The boss will know what to use in order to get your wife out the door and home!
Once she's home you be ready say to her hun come on we must go there's no time to explain now come on love.. hop in the car and to the airport! Once on the plane still do NOT mention whats going on just smile and talk casual yes that will be hard but you can do it!
Next thing your wife knows is that she will see the dream destination!! Once you both are off the plane you say Happy Birthday babe I love you!! And the both of you enjoy this magical time !! It will help oh that fighting thing too just getting away from the norm.
Good luck..
ps I loved it when my husband done this for me and we weren't even fighting!! Oh it's fantastic and you simply feel like a princess!! Oh your wondering about the clothes.. Take your wife shopping and get her new outfits!! It's her birthday and as for you well hun sorry you'll have to pack a few more items... to ship there.
2006-12-27 03:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you tell us about how much you make? Does that have anything to do with anything? Why did you tell us that you are fighting alot who cares if your question is what to get her for her birthday??????
Now to answer your question, why don't you get her a new husband who doesn't tell everyone how much money is in the household!
2006-12-27 03:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should both go into counseling if you are fighting a lot.
That would be the best gift for your relationship. A long weekend alone away together would also help. Good luck.
2006-12-27 03:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A weekend away with er Husband with out fighting... A marriage should be something that you cherish and your hardest for... your wife should be the most important thing to you... I believe she deserves the weekend getaway and i don't even know her... But make your wife happy like you used to when you first started dating her and when you married her
2006-12-27 03:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by Shonda 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweep her away on a vacation with just the two of you. Totaly surprise her. Take her away and make her remember why you two got together in the first place. Good luck and have fun!
2006-12-27 03:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
send her on a vacation on her own as if you both work long hours you wouldnt see each other much and you go somwehere else she might be having an affair and mad at you 4 making her cheat as woman say its always the blokes fault
2006-12-27 03:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not a vacation?
Sun, ski, Europe, wherever.
Step away from the cell phone... blackberry... email.
You can do it. For seven days.
You'd be amazed how you can reconnect. But, it will take seven days of no outside, business interference.
Good luck.
Relax and enjoy.
2006-12-27 03:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take her on a weekend getaway. Depending on where you live, take her to the mountains or the lake in a quite secluded cabin. Make the whole weekend about her and what she wants to do.
2006-12-27 03:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Candy B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you have both been working alot, and fighting alot - it sounds to me like you need time together. I suggest a nice trip together - make all the arrangements and surprise her.
2006-12-27 03:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What are your wife interests aside from work? Buy her something that allows her to enjoy her interests even more
2006-12-27 03:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Dazed and Confused?? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋