for Christmas and then doesn't get it for you?
My girlfriend that I have know for 20 years sells pampered chief. She made a big fuss that I should pick something out of the catologue for christmas since she got such good discounts. Well, I always buy her kids gifts and then ran out and bought her a gift as well. She knew we would be meeting up for Christmas day, and I drive all they way to her house and give them all their gifts.... and she has NOTHING for me. Not even a card? What the F? I spend all this time picking out something because she insisted on and then take the time to buy her and her kids gifts..... and she doesn't even blink about giving me NOTHING? How should I take this?? I know gifts don't matter, but why have me pick something out.... and I bought her a gift because of it!
2006-12-27 02:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just feel like if she couldn't get it or didn't have the money or whatever!! Couldn't she have written me out a nice card to give me instead??? She just grapped up her gifts and that was it!!!
2006-12-27 03:43:10 · update #1
This seems really odd to me, given that you have known this lady for 20 years. I am betting she intended to give you what you picked out but there was some sort of problem - it didn't come in due to the holiday rush or she just got too busy with other things. It is apparent that she INTENDED to get you the item. I know that friends should not 'overlook' or 'forget about' others, but sometimes this happens. I'm sure we've all failed to meet up to others' expectations at some point, and because we want them to forgive us and to look at our other stellar qualities, then we need to do that for them, too. I know you were really disappointed, and I'm sorry about that, and I hope the two of you can work things out.
2006-12-27 03:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Cris O 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so upset. There's reasonable explanations for this. During the Christmas rush the company could of been dealing with tons of back orders, or maybe the gift came in and had a flaw in it and she sent it back. Give it time and see what happens.
2006-12-27 03:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks like your spouse has a sugar daddy. i think of this is exceedingly glaring that there grew to become into something extra going on than friendship.... If even on the very slender possibility that there wasn't this is extra suitable than glaring that this guy has hobbies on your spouse extra suitable than friendship. for that reason on my own your spouse needs to have comprehend for you and end this courting. you at the instant are not incorrect. the secret's that something that makes an more advantageous half uncomfortable or scared or harm is something that the different better half ought to positioned an end to. And it particularly boils right down to this: Does your spouse love her "friendship" with this different guy extra suitable than she loves you? and he or she would be able to no longer introduce you?! nicely it quite is reason adequate to call for that this charade ends. Wow, don't be gullible. you do no longer want somebody to tell you which you're precise.... in case you even think of there is of undertaking which you're incorrect then you certainly are particularly having the wool pulled over your eyes. Their courting is basically straightforward disrespectful to you (on the least) and needs to end. If I have been on your footwear i could call for it (if i did no longer divorce her first). ... (and this is coming from a woman).
2016-11-23 19:35:10 · answer #3 · answered by trif 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any chance that she has ordered it and it just hasn't came in yet? If not, then I think thats pretty tacky of her to do so. Im sorry that happened to you.
2006-12-27 02:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i get gift for my friends during Christmas because I like to give them something to tell them I appreciated them. It is OK with me if I get nothing in return. In life, it is in fact, easier to give than to accept gifts. Give with your heart. If you don't think this person deserves your gift, don't give.
2006-12-27 02:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by jumbo_dumdum 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SHES NOT STUPPID IS SHE
2006-12-27 03:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋