No he does not always ONLY want sex
No its not because he cheated and feels guilty.
No its not because he only wants her to do something for him.
No to all the negative things you man hating women can think of....
He only wants to share affection
2006-12-27 02:40:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes the OBVIOUS thing was done...HE DID ASK HER WHY...
2006-12-27 02:46:02 · update #1
Their is something wrong in the relationship!
2006-12-27 02:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by fellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the timing is off and she is trying to get things accomplished and you are feeling snuggly. If this happens occasionally then maybe that is the problem. Either that or she is angry with you, or she has been working while you've been lying around. If this happens regularly, then you have a real problem in your marriage that needs to be dealt with as soon as possible. When hurts are not taken care of then the spouse can become bitter and the problems become much more deeply rooted. Make sure you are doing the other things right - being pleasant, spending time with the kids, fixing things around the house, attending to your personal hygiene, not letting her do all the work - THEN see if she is more likely to snuggle. If she is turning away your advances, then probably she WANTS you to ask what the problem is, and would share if she had the chance. Just make sure if you ask that you are ready to listen with an open mind and be honest about your own behavior and be willing to make changes.
2006-12-27 10:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually because she resents him for something. Us women are very sensitive and emotional. We don't always come forward with how we feel and therefore we hold resentment. For some reason we think that our spouses should know whats wrong. However it is us who fails by not communicating properly with our spouses. It could be as simple as stress as well. After a stressful day at work I tend to want to be left alone. I know it's selfish but it's how I feel sometimes. My mind rambles on with worries as I am a worry wart. I have learned that if we don't communicate we are not on the same page. We can't work together if he hide things from eachother. So the best thing to do is work on communication. A happily married woman does not withhold love for no reason. There is a problem that needs attention. But if she is not willing to talk about what is bothering her than you will have a hard time fixing it. Communicating is the only way to know what shes thinking. Good Luck & God Bless!
2006-12-27 11:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be several reasons why this is happening. Perhaps she is angry at him for something he did, or did not do for her, and now she is showing her displeasure by refusing to extend affection toward him. Refusing affection is a powerful way to exhibit "control" in a relationship. Examine what the "underlying need" is for the woman to do such a thing. Once you have identified that reason, then the behavior is more easily explained.
2006-12-27 10:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has some intimacy issues that she needs to resolve. So women, believe it or not, have diffculty accepting affection becasue they may not feel so good about themselves. Find out the root of the issue; talk to her and see where she is with this.
2006-12-27 10:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Dazed and Confused?? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have a problem with intimacy? I don't just mean physical intimacy, but emotional intimacy as well. Some people shy away from their partners when they are under stress, depressed, or feel bad about themselves. Ask her if something personal is bothering her. Maybe it's not you at all.
2006-12-27 10:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not the affectionate type. Some women I know consider that "hanging on them". They don't even like holding hands. No it's not because they don't like them. No it's not because she cheating. No to all the negative things you men can think of. It's just her choice.
2006-12-27 10:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would do it cause she's pissed at him, for whatever reason and he should be asking her.. not us.
Like my husband comes around all huggy and kissy, but where is he when I'm on my feet for 5 hours (after coming home from work) cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, taking care of kids? He's flat on his back on the couch w/ the remote, clicking away. He gets up to eat, then back on the couch. Yeah, I"m really feeling the love...
2006-12-27 10:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes women are not in the mood to be all lovey. If she pushes you away EVERY TIME you try to be affectionate, she's obviously not happy with the relationship or herself (she could be depressed). Keep trying to talk to her... or you could completely stop being affectionate and see how long it takes before she notices or cares.
2006-12-27 10:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. It's simple, she's not happy with him or with what he is doing.
She maybe also wants to impress someone else and he is in the way.
She is embarrassed to be seen with him and dont know how to tell him.
He could also have a ugly habit she dislikes.
She could've also fallen out of love with him.
She rather wants to be somewhere else or with someone else like her friends.
Maybe he put her in a bad mood.
2006-12-27 10:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by Spicemom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's having an affair. Maybe she's angry at you for something she hasn't told you about. Maybe she's just in a bad mood. I assume you've asked her. It sure sounds like you have a little pent up anger yourself, the most likely answer is that you two have miscommunicated, or are not communicating at all.
2006-12-27 10:45:44 · answer #11 · answered by Jessy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋