I am a 16 yr vergin girl, and just started having orgasms via a vibrator (really good one!), and I am enjoying pleasure with vibrator.twice a daily .i have vibrators of different size ? which should i use small or bigger ? what should be perfect size according my age ? will it increase the size of vgina ? is it safe to use them ? i have thick pubic hairs and i shave them three times a week .can i remove them permanently or lighten them ? i feel uncomfortabl with napkins during periods is there any alternative to napkins ? can i stop my periods permanently ?i have never gotten an orgasm from boy, or any other men . should i use vibrator or fingure only ?Thanks for any help - I greatly appreciate it!
2006-12-27 02:28:20 · 11 answers · asked by stone 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you are sixteen years of age why is sexual pleasures the main center of your life right now?
There are so many things that you can do as a young girl to enhance your life.
If you are still in school, try to keep busy with your school work, in getting good grades, join various school activities. Try to make friends, join them in going to the movies, or attending parties.
This is what young people do, to relieve some of the pressures in their lives.
If you believe in prayers, attend a church.
Because you are so young, you will have many years ahead to enjoy Sex the right way.
2006-12-27 02:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Seeanna 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa, you have covered a lot of ground here. You seem like you should read some kind of book about your body to get to know more about yourself. At least some technical terms, that might be of some help
1) Using a vibrator, is smart. Unfortunately I've never had an orgasm from a man and I wouldn't know what one was UNLESS I used a vibrator. You can't hurt yourself with one, it's a good way to discover what you like and dislike and prevent others FROM hurting you when you do become sexually active
2) Many people get their pubic hair professionally waxed instead of shaving, I wouldn't try to lighten them. I mean, it's pubic hair, not the hair on your head. Do you want to give it a style too? lol. Don't worry, don't be so self conscious about it. When you become sexually active, the person you're with will either love it being there or hate it. But mostly it boils down to how YOU feel about it yourself. That's how you make the decision
3) The alternative to napkins are tampons. They are intimidating at first, but they are brilliant, convinient and wonderful after you get the hang of them.
4) There are many new forms of birth control such as Loestrin 24 that minimize the period to just 3 days. There are other forms that can minimize it to just once a year or eliminate it, but I personally don't believe in getting rid of my period all together, as it IS a natural part of being a woman. In the past I have been on Loestrin, a low form of birth control that regulated and ligtened my periods making them much more barable.
5) But with all that said, I agree with another person who has already answered to some extent. I believe you're spending far too much time worrrying about sexual issues. In this world, you definitely need to worry more about your education and a spiritual relationship which is a million times better than a sexual one. More times than not, people down here will let you down. Also, don't believe that everybody is having sex, because they're totally not At that age, many people are lying about experiences they've never had, or they wish they were having.
Good luck in life girlie!
2006-12-27 03:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on remaining a virgin (not vergin). One should not have sex with a partner until they know they are ready for all the potential consequences.
If you enjoy a vibrator, good for you. Use a size you like. Age has nothing to do with what you enjoy, in this case. To keep your vagina tight, squeeze those muscles down there...for example, when you pee stop the flow of urine, then let it go, then stop it again...those are the muscles you want to use to keep yourself tight down there and you can squeeze/release any time and your future sexual partners will thank you for it.
No, you cannot permanently remove your pubic hair without laser treatment, and that is costly. Shaving or waxing are the common methods.
If you do not like sanitary napkins during your period, try tampons. At 16 you should be well aware of their existence. No, you cannot stop your periods, although if a time comes that you get on birth control, various methods can reduce or eliminate your period while you use them. Short of having a hysterectomy, you'll have a period until you go through menopause.
Odd post...causes me to doubt you are who/what you say you are.
2006-12-27 02:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes vibrators are safe- at least they can't get you pregnant. Size depends on what feels best- but yes your vagina will stretch if you use big ones- just a fact. Esp.ly if you use it regularly. If you decide to remove your hair down below be sure and wax, don't shave it'll only irratate the area and turn red. waxing is better. And try tampons instead of "napkins" or pads. It'll make you feel cleaner as well.
P.S. be sure to clean your vibrator between uses really good- so you don't get an infection!
2006-12-27 02:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by answers4questions 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lotta questions there....
I can only answer some of them. (despite being a guy).
Vibrators are a good thing. No, you can't hurt yourself with a vibrator unless you jamb a really big one in there really hard. So just take it easy during your play.
The size that you need to use is the size that feels the best. there is no other rule based on age or anything else. and the thickness of the vibrator will not enlarge your vagina. That will happen when you give birth.
I would like to congratulate you on your wise choice of using vibrators instead of having sex with someone to early. It is a safe and natural thing to masturbate. So don't worry about it.
so go have fun.
2006-12-27 02:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to experience pleasure by yourself and healthy. You can use tampons instead of napkins. Stopping your period....well unless there is something seriously wrong a hysterectomy is the only permanent way and no Dr is going to do that unless something warrants the hysterectomy. Using a vibrator is 100% safer then sleeping with anybody, you have eliminated all threat of pregnancy or STD's by using a vibrator.
2006-12-27 02:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because of the fact it carried into the recent testomony and is pronounced returned in Romans, Corinthians and Revelation... have a glance at what Romans has to assert appropriate to the unnaturalness of homosexuality: Romans a million:26-27 26For this reason God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women human beings did replace the organic use into that that's against nature: 27 and additionally additionally the boys, leaving the organic use of the female, burned of their lust one in the direction of yet another; men with men working that that's unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their blunders which became meet. a million Cor 6:9:9 Do you no longer be attentive to that the depraved won't inherit the dominion of God? don't be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor gay offenders 10nor thieves nor the grasping nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the dominion of God" the different Levitican regulations (cultural to maintain the individuals who lacked adaquate water furnish, refrigeration, and waste disposals- othewise they could have all died of ailment) at the instant are not restated, in the NT, especially as the thank you to stay OUT of heaven. Have a sturdy one!
2016-10-28 11:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Girl, It is not healthy for your life.
please don't use any vibarators.
It will spoil your vgina.
Please don't try to stop ur period.
Please don't use your finger.
You may feel boring or angry to read this kind of answer.
yes I can understand your problems.
You are sweet 16. But unable to get some Guidence for your life.
In this age orgasms are common.But don't waste ur life.
I was worst masturbator. now i am suffering.
Please consult some counselor.
Thank you.
2006-12-27 03:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Barnabas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am getting up in years and i have never did anything like this...it is good that you are not having sex with boys but is this something you feel you need to do..and twice a day...it does not sound normal to be..i know you can not stop your periods unless you have a hysterectomy...i would seek medical attention if i were you but i know this must be embarrassing or would be to me to even talk about...but times are changing with the teens now a days....
2006-12-27 02:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use what you like, it does'nt matter just as long as you're
comfortable with it !!!!!
2006-12-27 02:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by koko 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋