We talked about this before we got married but he seems to think there's nothing wrong with receiving from her and going out to lunch.
2006-12-27 01:57:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only contact I want for my husband to have with his ex wife is children related (They have two children together). That's it, so I wouldn't understand!
2006-12-27 02:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are there children from the marriage? If so then yea, it is fine--to go to lunch to talk about the children and to receive gifts from her, from the children. I did that with my ex until he remarried a crazy woman (long story). But if there are no children involved then I don't see a reason for him to still talk to her. And it would be up to him to put an end to it.
2006-12-27 10:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not alright but, if you put up with this before you got married then of course he will continue to do it. I would be telling him he needs to pick you or her. Even if they have children together they don't need to go to lunch and they shouldnt get gifts from each other. It doesnt sound like there relationship is quite over.
2006-12-27 10:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't fall for that crap. He does not need to be seeing his ex and whatever else he is doing behind your back. Nip it in the bud right now. If he still refuses to stop seeing her then your not important enough to him for him to stop. It's either her or you. Your not out there seeing your ex and excepting gifts. He is wrong and there is no if's, ands, or buts about it. Stop letting him have his cake and eat it too. Don't let him try to make you feel bad for you wanting him to stop seeing her because I'm sure he will try. That's bullcrap. Your right and he is wrong in this situation that that really is the bottom line. Good luck!!
2006-12-27 10:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good at all hun. Well of course he doesn't think there is anything wrong with it. He has the best of both worlds right now. You and her..And most likely if you confront him seriously about it, it'll all be your fault. P L A Y E R what does it spell. Also look up Sociopath see if his traits match any on there they give you
2006-12-27 10:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!! If they are talking about the children, or if he helps the children buy a gift for their mother that is okay. If he is going to lunch with her and the children okay, but you should be ask if you would like to go along.
2006-12-27 10:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question, would it be ok for you to have an ex husband that takes you out and buys you gifts?!
No, it is not alright for him to do that! And if anyone says other wise, they have done it.
Anyways, they should be called an EX for a reason. If he wants to be with you, he has to be with you, not her!
2006-12-27 10:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by nicoleware623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know me and my ex get along great but we don't exchange gifts or go out to lunch together and yes we do have grown kids between us. I just don't like that idea!!
2006-12-27 10:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by mom363546 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem here.....you knew about this situation before your marriage. You expect him to change it now because you are married to him? Say ouch.....it probably won't stop. However, you could ask to be included in the lunch dates...if something is up with them...well he isn't going to want you attending. Be the bigger person...invite both of them out to lunch...........
2006-12-27 10:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by slick chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why she is his EX!!!!! This is very disrespectful towards to you and why are still letting this happen? Your husband is with you and there is absolutely no reason why he should still be hanging out and talking to his ex. Please put an end to this and have a serious talk with your husband.
2006-12-27 10:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋