..when you were both quite drunk. If you were totally straight, would you talk to them and ask them random questions about what they're up to the next time they randomly walked past you?
2006-12-27 01:45:44 · 22 answers · asked by eradicate 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
the only difference between a straight guy and a gay guy is a 6pack of beer.
2006-12-27 01:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by joey7638 2 · 2⤊ 5⤋
I would address the kiss immediately, decline their advances, and try to continue to be friends with the person. Actually, we are making this question too hard. Treat them the way you would anyone. Like if you are a girl and a guy comes up and randomly, how would you handle that? This situation may not merit special attention.
2006-12-27 10:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by katie32u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we were drunk I wouldn't worry about the kiss, but if that's how they really feel even after they're sober than I'd let them know that I value their friendship but the feeling is not and never will be mutual. I'd just act the same towards them after that.
Since I'm not straight and I don't drink I don't have to worry about that.
2006-12-27 10:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is only our uptight American society that frowns upon same sex kissing, particularly between males. European societies have a much more mature outlook upon such matters. My maternal grandfather arrived in this country, escaping unbearable conditions then present in the Ukraine, in the early 1900s at the age of 24 with $8 in his pocket, leaving behind everything and everyone he knew. As a child, teenager, and young man when greeting my grandfather until the day he died, in his mid-80s, I would always kiss him. But in certain European countries it is no big deal for heterosexual males to kiss other males who are unrelated by blood.
2006-12-27 11:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by Seeker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No need to imagine. A Salesian Brother [kinda like a priest, and wouldn't you know it, Catholic.] talked me into kissing in a confessional when I was a kid. Said he was 'afraid' to kiss a girl, but was curious about the sensation. I obliged, apparently too well. He kept calling on the phone for weeks after that. My parents thought I was considering the priesthood! Finally I had to threaten him with exposure before the clergy before he would leave me alone. So no, I was no longer interested in random or any other conversation with him.
2006-12-27 09:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on if you are close friends. It is best never to ignore something happening in that instance. Bring it up in a non-threatening way. If the person is not a close friends, let it go. However, if that person brings it up, be willing to discuss it in an intellectual manner, especially if you don't feel the same way.
2006-12-27 09:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Prissy2t4 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is drunk than i guess its all a misunderstanding. I will take like nothing happend at all. If he pretends to be drunk than Its another thing.
2006-12-27 10:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'ask them random questions when they randomly walk past you' HUH...why not just ask them the questions that you really want answered?
2006-12-27 11:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how drunk I would be, I wouldn't let them get close enough to kiss me. I like my husband's goodies too much to even think about that.
2006-12-27 09:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would talk to the person like normal, even though I'm not interested. One kiss - who cares? I'd make sure they understood I'm not interested, though.
Some people just like attention. I, personally, just wouldn't think it a big deal.
2006-12-27 09:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it were a nice passionate kiss I might consider another during that random walkby.
2006-12-27 10:36:38 · answer #11 · answered by Murazor 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋