what should i do???.........i also want that she should not be hurt.........
plz help me...
2006-12-27 00:52:15 · 11 answers · asked by krazypunit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know her from nursery ...... and our parents r good friends as we were neighbors for a long time .
problem is that i can't forget her .i always dream of her band can't concentrate on studies. i don't want that she gets hurt and i am also in fear if she breaks the friendship.please tell me what to do????
please help me
2006-12-27 01:08:48 · update #1
i know her from 3rd std. ...... and our parents r good friends as we were neighbors for a long time .actually i have not even proposed her for girlfriend.problem is that i can't forget her .i always dream of her band can't concentrate on studies. i don't want that she gets hurt and i am also in fear if she breaks the friendship.please tell me what to do????
please help me
2006-12-27 15:32:54 · update #2
close friends should be able to tell each other stuff....with that said.....ask her to the movies and food afterwards..start with small talk and then relay your true feelings to her.....don't just blurt out " I love you"..tell her how much you've enjoyed her friendship and would like more.....(not sex but maybe in the future when trust is gained and both are ready)....good luck....
2006-12-27 01:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first things first. If she is really a true friend, then she will not be hurt by you coming clean. In a true friendship, honesty is always the best policy. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, doesn't mean that you have to stop being friends (I speak from experience.).
Take the plunge and go for it. It could bring you closer together, or even take your friendship to a whole new level.
Good luck buddy.
2006-12-27 02:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bigfoote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think she would be surprised. Don't tell her directly I mean tell her in an other way by taking her to lunch or cinema and little by little you will find your best time to tell her that you love her. Remember to always be yourself. It will help you alot.
Take it easy and good luck!
2006-12-27 01:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man i thank u should talk to her about it and seeing how yal are best friends she should understand .i thank that u also have a good chance with her cues u know her very will and i also thank that yal should talk to other people about this and get other advice from close people
look man sorry if i did not help but good luck and ill pray for u and her .good luck
2006-12-27 01:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Geneva D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to tell her...you do no longer desire to regret no longer telling her if she does get taken away. i does no longer hate him he remains a similar individual. i could tell him that i don't sense a similar way and that i basically desire to be pals. i does no longer end the friendship over something like that because of the fact; i could nonetheless preserve him.
2016-11-23 19:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by hannigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i did was email her say that u have longed 2 tell her how u feel about her and tell her if she dosnt feel the same way tell her u dont want it 2 hurt ur friendship
how long have u2 been friends
2006-12-27 00:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all , why you can't do it?
Be yourself , tell her about it , I think she won't be hurt , cause:
1- you're her friend
2- maybe she loves you too , but she don't want to hurt you too
Listen to your heart , everything 'll be okay :)
2006-12-27 00:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by woo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may come as a bit of surprise to her, possibly..
give her hints that you like her...
if she takes it positively, then you should/could tell her about how you feel..
but if not, maybe you have to keep your feelings to yourself so as not to risk your friendship...something you might regret in the end
2006-12-27 00:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell her that you love her... before it is too late
be brave and do it...what if some one asks her out? what would you do then?... biting your figures?!... go tell her...before it is too late......Good Luck
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
2006-12-27 01:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whip it out dog. You will find out what she really thinks then.
2006-12-27 00:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Billy Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋