My Ex and me have been together for a year and on the 28th of November, we broke up once again. She's famous for breaking it off with me every few months because she gets pissed over something or other and doesn't want to discuss it. Once it's out of her system she talks to me again. Right now she isn't talking to me at all. No contact. We don't live in the same state so it's not like I can run into her. I've emailed her a few times, even during Christmas to say Merry Christmas and I bought her an expensive gift that she accepted but did not even say thank you for. This isn't the worst fight we've ever had, there was others and she's always talked to me again. However, this time I think it's different, this time I think she won't respond to me ever again. How do I change that? How do I get her back? I love her very much. I've tried the flowers bit and everything and nothing has worked. IF it were my fault, I would say it but I hate to argue, all the arguments she starts.
2006-12-27 00:33:52 · 19 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you possibly want someone like this back in your life?
You are either very young or have a serious self esteem issue. Either way, grow up and move on. Find someone that WANTS to be with you and doesn't act like an immature child breaking up every few months.
2006-12-27 00:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you but she's seeing somebody else, I know this because I did a long time ago. I couldn't decide who I wanted to be with and when things wouldn't go my way I would run to the other. It is a vicious cycle and she wont stop till one of you break it off. You give her what the other guy cant. Separate for good and find somebody else or take a break and spend some time with your friends go out have fun, she needs to make up her mind with-out hurting you.
2006-12-27 08:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try...She sounds very immature and selfish...Love doesn't work that way...When it's true love...you talk things out...you might get pissed for awhile, but a relationship will never work when you can't discuss issues and work them out...remember this..a relationship at it's best is a true friendship...I wouldn't want to have a friend that wouldn't talk to me when I needed her...who wouldn't be there for me when I needed her...why would you want someone that doesn't want to be there for you? A girl...A friend?
Sounds like to me like all you have in her is A girl...no friend in sight...There's one out there for you...I promise...Keep looking..she's probably been right in front of you all of the time!
2006-12-27 08:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by buggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not interested then that is it. You cant "win" anybody back. It has to be mutual and something you BOTH want. Move on, as you have only been with her a year. If you were together for longer than 5 years it may have been different.
2006-12-27 08:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kevon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she is very cute.....I was in exact same situtation as yours, YOU HAVE TO MAKE A CHOICE, do you want a life time loving partner or an immature naive imbecil child that make your life miserable day after day, you should consider yourself lucky that she stopped talking to you, it is a bless, and God loves you. Find another partner and move on with your life, that's what I did, and I am feeling so happy...
2006-12-27 09:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this is a cycle. Maybe it is smarter to break it and end the relationship. I'm sure it hurts every time it happens and you shouldn't have to go through that over and over again.
2006-12-27 08:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by gold 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are thinking WAY too much about this. She is a big problem, and she is making you miserable. I'm sure that you care about her, bit it doesn't sound like she has much respect for you. It's sad, but it's also time to move on.
Good luck.
2006-12-27 08:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Allan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get back with this woman? Can't you see that she doesn't love you? Find the courage to let her go and get on with your life. And stop being a doormat for women, my friend.
2006-12-27 08:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, possibly you need to start dating again? Really, though, i think it's time for her to look you up. Give her time to really miss you. If she cares at all, she will be the one contacting you. Trust me on this one!
2006-12-27 08:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT WIN HER BACK! there is a reason EX's are EX's....you 2 do not need to be together shes playin with u...long distance relationships rarely work!
2006-12-27 08:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by jean grey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋