i was very apset that time.aftersometime i gave him second chance,bcoz i love him & he is my sister's brother-in law.tell me am i right or not,
2006-12-27 00:17:54 · 38 answers · asked by sukham_grewal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he had the affair after he was engaged to you, then that will probably be his style. If you do not mind him having affairs all the time, then fine, stay with him. Obviously, if he did have the affair after becoming engaged to you, he must feel that you are not enough to satisfy him, and that's the way it will always be. You have to decide if you can live with him running around with other women all the time.
2006-12-27 00:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only one that can tell you that is you. Some have affairs once and that is it and others there are more to after. I think that is has to do with how much you are willing to put up with. If this is what you want and you are happy then go for it. Giving someone a second a chance is fine as long as they know that there isn't going to me a third and forth and so on.
2006-12-27 00:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You found out after only a few months? What else are you likely to find out? Better put this guy behind you as he will cause you nothing but grief. Being your sisters brother-in-law is irrelevant. That's no excuse for being with him. He's a cheater and he has already showed a lack of integrity and he can't be trusted. Tell him the engagement is off.
2006-12-27 00:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be the affair started before he got engaged to you.If so and if he has discontinued the affair after being engaged to you,then it should not bother you.If however the affair is continuing even after the engagement then better break off,for affairs few years after marriage are common on account of boredom,but it is very rare for anyone to have an affair just after one gets engaged.
2006-12-27 00:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by rkbaqaya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your ball totally yar, once you have already given him second chance,definately he might have promised you to be sincear to your love. But girls keep on taking promises from their male counterpart, whereas they keep on screwing when ever they get chance. Either reject him right way or make it a habbit to stay with it through out your life.
Do you know once you enjoy sex with any one you would never forget it in your life, Whenever you get the II chance you will try to avail it . It is a continous process. There is no alternate to it.
Your whole life is left, why do you want to spoil it. Once you get married to you, than no body will give you the same status which you would get by rejecting him right now. That time after using u he will openly flirt with some other girl.
It all depends on from which country, and religion you belong to. The prevaling conditions in your country makes you the best judge to take right decission.
2006-12-28 19:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this supposed to be a "gotcha moment"? When Democratic Senators stop receiving sweetheart deals on their mortgages, hiding money in their freezers, pushing through socialist programs without reading them, operate gay brothels, peddle influence for votes, and, the epitome, killing passengers in their cars without serving time, then I'll worry about where a Republican Senator from Tennessee puts his anatomy. Something about living in glass houses... "Waving the Bible" is better than "waving an OATH of Office" and failing: at least Republicans fail to live up to standards; Democrats don't HAVE any standards to fail.
2016-03-29 08:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An engagement is an adjustment period, to see if the two people involved are ready for marriage. Your man is obviously not ready for marriage, so it would be wise of you to break the engagement now. Otherwise, you put him in the position of having to lie and cheat on you, when that's not necessary. If you love him, let him go.
2006-12-27 00:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must have been very hard for you. It takes strength to forgive. But you should not forgive him for anything else coz then he is just gona walk all over you. make sure you sit down and have a long honest talk. you will know of he is truthfull or not. follow your gut instinct. just remember that every1 has a past but the future has to be with you and you only!
2006-12-27 00:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Amanii S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..women are always known to be the more loyal of the species..I am not saying guys have a licence to have affairs..and its hard to say if it is a right or wrong thing to have forgiven..but most guys do change after realizing that they have done a wron thing..so...if he KNOWS that you love him and if he respects you for having forgiven him..then he will change and be loyal to you..otherwise you can kick him where the sun does not shine! :)
2006-12-27 03:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by raj_mehta_rulez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should forgive him. I mean yes you love him, but what does it say that he would cheat on you? I don't think that if a man loves you, he would even consider another person. I think that you should also give up the fact that he is you sister's brother-in-law. That is irrelevant. I hope that you figure out what is more important to you, your realtionship or your happiness?
2006-12-27 00:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋