A friend and I had an on and off kind of friendship last semester, but we ended the semester on good terms. I wrote her a Christmas card and gave it to her. She thanked me, we said goodbye for the holidays, then we went home. Later on, on Myspace (yes, I know Myspace can be a piece of worthless garbage sometimes!), she posted a "Merry Christmas" icon to many of her friends, but didn't include me. That hurt me, because I felt left out, and she didn't even acknowedge or tell me Merry Christmas, but she did to many people that she didn't even talk to. If she couldn't even post a lousy icon on my page and if I sent her a Christmas card... then something's not right here.
The thing is, I'm not sure if I should make a big deal out of this--should I talk to her and tell her how I feel, or would I come on as a whiner/somebody who seems pathetic? I don't want to overreact, but I do feel excluded somehow. I, however, think communication is important in a friendship.
Thoughts? Thanks!
2006-12-26 21:41:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well tell her that it bothered you that she excluded you, or maybe when you see her again, make a little joke like, you said merry christmas to everyone else but me, sheesh at least i know now where i stand in your list, and give a smile. Don't make to big of deal out of it, or she will think you are some kind of possessive jerk or sumthin
2006-12-26 21:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, merry christmas! oh thats a shame! well bro, you know what, send them back a merry christmas comment again, as if everything was ok... show them that ur the better person :)
Dont feel excluded, people out there are funny, u dont know why she hasnt sent back.. could be many reasons.. sorry if im not much help. Salim
2006-12-27 05:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by ahahahaha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what has happened to you has happened to me... actually a lot of times this christmas... recently, a friend of mine, a friend i love dearly,,, has forgotten to greet me "MERRY CHRISTMAS",, this was the story:
it was just a week before the break when i gave her a present,, together with a letter of how much i treasure her,, but then,, i learned that she had greeted all of her friends on christmas day..
except me... i talked to her then she told me that she fills insecure of the things i do then she asked me if i love her then i immediately said no,,, but then it was just a couple of days ago when i learned that she loved me....
perhaps she loves you!
need more advices,,,? let's talk and have a chat:
here's my address: brave2strong@ym
2006-12-27 05:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by a_n_o_n_y_m_o_u_s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah i think you really are pathetic.;... a merry christmas maybe an important greeting from a special person but the most important is if she still talks to you.....
dont be dumb about it just greet her and let her feel about that thing.....
2006-12-27 05:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Fetheir O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Merry Christmas! maybe she sent so many she thot she also sent you one... hope u had a good one
2006-12-27 05:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by *) ayla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No big deal, better let it slide.
2006-12-27 05:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go and see what happens.....
2006-12-27 05:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋