i m not comfertable in society, dont like to go in crowd, now when i think to get married, so i think i need not only a wife but a person who help me to live in this society, am i too week? or whats the prob. with me? why i need a shoulder? if some body can help me pls, i m serious about marriage but think no girls will like person like me
2006-12-26 21:33:34 · 6 answers · asked by ex_m. thank God 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well first off, You need to be more comfortable with your self, before you allow another person to share your life with. Maybe look towards a close freind for help, or maybe seek some counsuling. And I am sure there is a girl out there who is right for you, you just need to look beyond the boundry walls that you put up, and see what is really out there
2006-12-26 21:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U seem to have all the right reasons why people get married to someone. And there are a lot other benifits of getting married. But make sure you find a woman that is right for you and you know that there is no other woman to take her place in your heart. And finding that kinda of a woman won't be a easy thing, but u have try. THAN! get serious about marying her.
Good luck!
2006-12-30 08:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by unverified 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be married if you're self-conscious or "week". Some woman will pounce at the opportunity of taking your money and time. I was single and wanted a wife and kids. I had to give up trying to look for a wife. I refused to allow myself to open in that way. I felt better after reading this...
"I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairs—how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— and his interests are divided."
In other words... take care of yourself first and worry about women and the world later.
2006-12-27 07:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by DeanPonders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! forget women, you don't need them to help you. The only thing I have found women are good for is to empty your bank account. Stand up on your own two feet and walk proudly. Society is a scary place but you will get more comfortable with it after a while. Besides you cant find a good woman (if one exists) if your insecure about yourself.
2006-12-26 22:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by whatukno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single is better because most marriages end in divorce and you must work at it every stinking day, and it gets old really fast..
2006-12-26 21:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God sent Adam a "Help Mate".
There is someone for each of us.
2006-12-26 22:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋