I slept wit my friend and it was only the second time we saw eachother alone is that ganna change the way he sees me?
and every since we slept wit eacother that seems to b all we do when we see eachother
Dose he think im easy?????? and will me n him ever b where we started agine just being friends ??????????
2006-12-26 20:53:07 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hello dear!
First, you ask yourself what you want to get from a friendship, or anything else.
Then, you design your strategy and proceed.
What are you looking from the lucky friend of yours? TO continue going to bed or something else? It is somehow hard to get to simple friendship, I suppose! In the case you enjoy what you are doing and not just follow instincts and habits, everything is fine! But, more or less you are getting good lessons, and the life is ahead of you two!
2006-12-26 20:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds more like he really likes you!! Ok before you guys slept together he could of been secretly crushing on you. But once you gave him some he is crushing even more. So now every time he sees you he wants to have sex because he knows or thinks that is the only way he can have you, is through sex. Since he can't be more than your friend he likes the fact that he can at least have sex with you!! You need to tell him, that every time you see each other you don't want to have sex. That you want to be able to hang out with each other with ending the time with sex. You want to be friends and don't want the friendship to be all about sex. Maybe he will tell you why he wants sex all the time, I mean what his reasoning is for!!! Good Luck!!!!!!!!!1
2006-12-26 21:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by noramom4life101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that I used to sleep with. I never saw her any differently. We were friends before and we were friends after.
You need to talk about the sex and why you're having sex. Maybe he sees you as more than a friend or maybe he just enjoys having sex with you.
I'm sure that he doesn't think that you're easy! You can be just friends again as long as you both agree to never disclose your intimacy with future boyfriends and girlfriends (they are the one's that will have a problem with it).
It really will ultimately depend on what the two of you are really thinking and feeling, so it's time to start talking. Sex is an enjoyable activity to share with someone special; it's not a problem unless you make it a problem.
2006-12-26 20:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Because now you've just let them see up you butt. That was just a fantasy before. In their dreams, you were slim, with abs and a perfect body. Now they know where every mole and birthmark is. That extra pat of fat on your leg and THE SIZE OF YOUR CATCHTER'S MITT.
Not a good move. Unless you both plan to be dating. That's the only other option. If you're not there yet, avoid all eye contact and move on.
2006-12-26 21:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by L. F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you sleep with him?
why does he sleep with you?
is it for the sex or its a result of the intimacy you share.
really you are both never going to feel the same about each other and thats the main reason yu would start asking yourself an us this question.
its a step further in any relationship/friendship when people have sex and its different from when you were not having sex. find out what it means to him though and recocile yourself to the changes that are going to comew on.
2006-12-26 21:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by onukpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could unquestionably convey approximately intercourse. Having a male and woman area out on a similar time isn't secure despite while you're unlikely to have intercourse. additionally you're able to provide human beings the incorrect theory and positively one of your woman pals could finally end up liking you.
2016-11-23 19:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a "Booty Call", and men do see the women
they " just " sleep with differently. Most of the time
it's not as a Girlfriend.
2006-12-26 21:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things usually change after sleeping with someone. Especially when it is a friend.
2006-12-26 20:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. It's very hard to go back to being just friends. You are now classified in his friends w/ benefits category
2006-12-26 20:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by loveyoumuch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! you can be friends again. Although both of you will have to undergo a hypnotic memory wipe.
2006-12-26 20:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Cougie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋