and later he/she tells you they were certain you said it was ok, but you know better?
2006-12-26 19:57:15 · 18 answers · asked by wrldzgr8stdad 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It was just a bad dream!! And I'm not just saying that because I'm single, LOL!
C'mon, nobody makes love to someone in the same bed where their spouse is sleeping! I've heard of adulterers leaving the spouse clues because they "want" to get caught but that's ridiculous!!
I'd never be married to someone that stupid, stupid enough to cheat on me in the very bed where I'm sleeping (and I'm not just saying that because I'm a light sleeper).. or who thinks I'm stupid enough to fall for such a ridiculous lie.
2006-12-28 09:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 6⤋
Yeah - sounds as if you may have said it was OK before and you are just sort of peeved that she didn't get your OK on this specific one. Well- at least she wasn't sneaking out and trying to hide it. She at least had the decency to be up front about it and also gave you a golden opportunity to watch - which I think is sort of admirable. This is also great because now you can demand the same sort of freedom to explore as well. As they say - what is good for the goose is good for the gander. So look at this as the golden opportunity that it is and enjoy life. It's too short to get upset about anything. Always look on the bright side.
2006-12-26 20:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by gaijinojiisan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did once. I had been married to my ex for 19 years and we started our relationship when I was 14. We had been divorced for about 4 years before I married again, but I had been saying his name so long it just popped out. My sweet husband never missed a stroke so I thought he didn't heard me. Later he told me he had heard me but could understand it considering how long I had been with my ex. He' a very secure man and he knew he was the one I was making love with and loved so it just wasn't a big deal. I doubt my reaction would be the same if he had said his ex wife's name.
2016-05-23 09:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would get up without saying anything and grab the video camera. Then I would scare the hell out of them and kick them both out of my house. It's not over yet thought! I would send the video to ever person we knew. Then I would make sure I shared it throught Limewire so it can never be deleted. Then ten years later Murder maybe.
2006-12-26 21:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'd think it was a bad dream. Then I'd kick both of them out of bed and file for divorce. A relationship like that simply can't be repaired.
2006-12-26 20:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, I take it that you dont keep a loaded gun on your nightstand? LOL. The fact that they fed you that excuse, would elude to your being liberal in Love and possibly may indicate an open marriage or relationship
2006-12-26 20:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Phil J 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly be pissed off. Did you allow some other person to be in the same bed?
2006-12-26 21:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by ckgene 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an episode of Jerry Springer!
Kick his butt to the curb.
2006-12-26 21:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
omg i would freak!!! u r supusto b w one person while in a relationship (thats how u get an std)
2006-12-26 20:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by heather b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know the judge will understand...I just gotta convince the jury!
2006-12-26 20:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by tbonz 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
both would hit the door so quick . and get divorced to think they was that stupid as well cheap as well in my opion?
2006-12-26 20:01:33 · answer #11 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋