would you still feel betrayed?
2006-12-26 19:50:32 · 24 answers · asked by wrldzgr8stdad 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope. I've been divorced for years and if someone came forward with something negative about my ex, at this point I wouldn't care no matter what it was. It's like a bad dream, the marriage doesn't feel "real" anymore and I have no feelings towards the ex. I would have less of an emotional response than what I get from reading a book or seeing a movie. It'd probably rate on the same level of emotional response as I get from overhearing some lady at the beauty shop talking about what her cousin's gardener did. Who cares?
2006-12-28 09:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 6⤋
I would still feel betrayed. Marriage is marriage, you took a vow. Just because it ends doesnt mean it gives you a reason to be an ******. Thats just something else to rub in his or her face. I think if you couldnt bring it up before. Dont start now. Why? It's only gonna cause more pain. Divorce it hard enough.
2006-12-26 20:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it would be betrayed, but I would feel a little gullible....I don't mean that badly...believe me in my 3 marriages...things have gone over my head or I just didn't want to believe what I knew was happening...because, of course.."He loves me too much to do that"...I would think about and maybe even laugh a little at myself...then I would be grateful that he wasn't in my life anymore and pray for his new wife.
2006-12-26 19:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by klouise 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHY BOTHER? The marriage is done and over! It shouldn't be affecting you now and if it is, you need counseling to get over your marriage in the first place. You may be angry and you may even be a little upset, but if it hangs on and on, then there is something certainly going on with you that needs addressing.
2006-12-26 20:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ikeg 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I would feel very justified in the decision to divorce this person and realise that I am much better off without them and their cheating ways.
2006-12-26 19:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
A little, but I'd get over it fast I am sure. But chances are if one spouse cheats the other will too, whether they know about the other or not.
2006-12-26 19:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
YES, but it should just confirm that the divorce was the right decision. Be glad that you are out of that situation. She could have brought much more than a broken heart into your bedroom...these days some women are picking up 'til death do you part' diseases
Consider yourself lucky!
2006-12-26 19:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by lisa s 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
of course, on some small level i beleive that everyone would fell that way, but i also feel that such a thing if happened long ago and the two of you are no longer together, as hard as it may be i would try not to loose any sleep over it, such things would be a waste of your valuable time
2006-12-26 19:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Life is too complicated to keep digging in the past, not your problem any more if you are already divorced!
2006-12-26 22:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would write it off as another reason that the marriage didn't work. It just confirms the end result. Time to let it go.
2006-12-26 19:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by opheliaissaved 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes i would still feel betrayed of course b'coz he cheated while i seat at home and being a faithful housewife.Just to make it loud and clear i don't deserve someone like that/him.
2006-12-26 19:55:05 · answer #11 · answered by rex 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋