I loved a person but could not marry him i got married to someone else but after my marriage i could not stop myself meeting my bf but at the same time my husband was harrasing me and i too was feeling that pinch in myself that i dont love him at all meanwhile i got physically attached to my bf and i felt i am cheating so i wanted to get out of that relation believe me i tried hard to adjust with my husband but he does not care for my feelings and somehow the situation arrived and my parents got me the divorce i left him 2 years ago but recently got divorce what i have done is correct or wrong i thought i would love him but he never cared for me and my feelings instead of all this he starting telling people that i am a lesbian tell me how can one get into physical relation if she does not love him leave abt physical relation he never cared for me, i used to eat 8 sleeping pills daily becoz of him i never get sleep now i came out and wanted to marry my bf but he is also getting married
2006-12-26 19:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Issha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello, looks to me like your screwed pretty much any way you go. You were in love, but married someone else? That makes a lot of sense! Now you have a BF who is getting married? Why not try looking for someone who is single. That usually works best for a relationship. Also, how old are you. You sound young from your typing. I could be wrong. Why would you parents get the divorce for you? That's something you should have done, unless you're underage! If he really does love you then he wouldn't be getting married. I actually feel sorry for the other woman. Who is obviously unaware of what a piece of crap she is marring. Good Luck with that one.
2006-12-26 19:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WRONG! - sorry, but you wanted the truth.. and truth hurts sometimes! I don't understand why you got married if you were in love with somebody else, even if you could not marry person who you loved?
advice - forget about both, your ex-husband and ex-boyfriend, you deserve better!
Good Luck!
2006-12-26 22:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prob the reason u were physically attached to bf was because u were physically attracted. and the reason u were wit husband was cause u felt devoted to b lik u were supposed to b. but yes cheating is wrong.
2006-12-26 19:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you married a guy while you still loved a different guy, you need to start with a clean slate, find a totally new guy, a nice one that will think of your feelings and one that you love enough to keep your marriage vows with. good luck
2006-12-26 19:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from your typing seem,s like you lost over a dream of the grass was geener on the other side and found out the hard way in my opion ? wrong move..?
2006-12-26 19:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too late dear.
But don't think about the past. Think about your future. every thing will be alright. Believe in GOD and at teh same time Believe in yourself.
2006-12-26 21:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Srikanth™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do as many drugs as you can. the more the merrier. eventually you will forget all of it. alcohol works too but it gives you a bad hangover. also another tool to help forget it porn. my addiction to porn has gotten me out of many relationships i didnt want to be in.
well,
good luck,
your friend,
Jesus H. Christ
2006-12-26 19:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by hidden_in_the_1337 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes very dumb mistake. Following behind false dreams and hopes. Now you have none.
2006-12-26 19:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by starsmoonis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋