2006-12-26 19:39:16 · 22 answers · asked by BROKENANDUSED 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. Separated is not divorced. Until you are no longer married, you are married.
2006-12-26 19:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by lyoskowitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
legally, no. it can be used against him in court, if you are not legally divorced yet. but, it depends on how much trouble you want to cause for him in regaurds to if you bring it up in court or not. if you just want it to be over and done with, and both of you are planning for a divorce, just ride it out, let him do his thing. it will be over with soon anyway, right? if you are seperated and might get back together, then yes it is wrong and definatley grounds for divorce. either way, its wrong.
2006-12-27 03:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say No!You are only separated,which means you are not ready to divorce,so until you are both ready to get a divorce and know for sure you will not reconcile I would hold off,cause it could catch up to you in the future and cause you more problems than you have now!
2006-12-27 03:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally? No. it can be used against the cheating spouse in a divorce case. Morally? Depends on the circumstances of the separation.
2006-12-27 03:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a bond between 2 people. No matter if your separated or not that bond is there. If you don't want to be married than get a divorce before you cheat.
2006-12-27 11:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by ahg30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your wife to end up having the upper hand in court. If you want her lawyer finding out about your "infedility", Because you're technically still married, IF you want her to have the upper hand in getting more than 50% of your assets, alimony and custody of your kids/dogs/cats. But other than that its fine! Enjoy, let loose, HAVE FUN!!! Good luck!
2006-12-27 03:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the problem you are separated anyway? if we talk of law then it's not right but law doesn't have a heart and mind to know what's really going on. give him a divorced, so you two can really live the way life should be... a happy one.
2006-12-27 04:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a LEGAL separation, by all means. You are free to see other women, get engaged, live together or whatever. You just can't remarry until you are officially divorced.
2006-12-27 03:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ralph the Sage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically yes. You don't feel good about it, do you? If it will always be an issue then leave him as an ex. You know you will bring it up in every heavy argument. Save yourself and him the heartache. He would HATE it. I would lose my mind.
2006-12-27 03:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if they want to have sex with other partners, then they need to get a divorce!
2006-12-27 03:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋