My fiance and I broke up the Saturday before Xmas. And I have been a wreck every since, we are working things out now, but Xmas is over and I had gifts for his family...what do I do? When is a good time to give his family the gifts or is it too late?
2006-12-26 18:18:20 · 9 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
What a shame Christmas was so sad for you - It should be the best holiday of the year! Since you bought the presents and presumably you like his parents, go ahead and give them the gifts. After all, that's the Christmas spirit! You won't regret it, but you might feel unhappy if you have to return gifts you put a lot of thought into. Good luck with your fiance. Don't rush into marriage - it's harder than just being engaged.
2006-12-26 18:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Miz Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your decision to buy the gifts came from "obligation", take them back. If it came from your "heart', then give them.
I never heard of a time limit. Just give them when you next see them, or call and tell them you would like to stop by and drop something off.
You sound like a person with a very good heart (although a little bruised right now). I think you will feel better if you give them the gifts.
Good luck - God Bless.
2006-12-28 09:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by ump2please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have gifts for his family and you are still on good terms with them I don not think it is too late. Contact one of them and ask when you can bring the gifts over or if one of them can come and pick them up. If they care, they will be supportive regardless of when you give them the gifts. Good Luck.
2006-12-27 02:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by lamaestra313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still give them the gifts.
2006-12-27 02:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by tinamaries43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should still give them the gifts. Etiquitte and manners don't end with relationships.
2006-12-28 09:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give them the gifts yourself.......you haven't broken up if you are working it out by the way.
2006-12-27 02:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take them now. Tell them your time has been limited lately and you weren't able to get it done.
2006-12-27 06:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send them the stuff anyway, and I hope that they'll understand.
2006-12-27 04:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
merry christmas
2006-12-27 07:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by cinabolic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋